As I like to say, the pussy is for licking and the arse is for fucking!
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Honestly, I’m not sure I want something as radical as 100% anal. Sure, I prefer to feel my boyfriend’s big cock in my little asshole rather than in my little pussy. And I know my orgasms are much stronger in my ass. But I also love vaginal sex. I love almost everything about sex: French kissing, caresses, oral sex, vaginal sex, anal sex, etc. Why deprive myself of one of these pleasures just because it’s not my favorite? I love chocolate ice cream, but I also like vanilla ice cream from time to time. 
So yes, I think I’ll go for a lot of anal sex. 90%, maybe even more, but I don’t think I’d say no to vaginal sex from time to time.
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Still I see the same happening as in my relationship. Very fast, vaginal sex got reduced to a short foreplay to switch to what we both really wanted. To assfuck.
So whennthr timencame she told me she loved it if I skipped her pussy and went straight for her asshole. The next step was obvious then.
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I think I’m definitely totally like that. I love feeling his big cock in my ass so much more that it’s neither necessary nor wanted nor even desired for him to take my pussy first. However, having my pussy taken is still a real pleasure that I don’t want to deprive myself of if he or I want it at any moment.
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Congratulations, it’s great that you’re seeing your desires materialise. Good to hear as your vibrations only help spread the word about AOL 
To keep with a recent post and another member’s stated desire, I have split the discussion on ass to vaginal penetration to another topic. Let’s keep the intro post intro posts.
This will also make the forum easier to navigate, and to find topics one is interested is.
For a few weeks now, I’ve been using my new 5cm butt plug with my boyfriend, and we’ve been practicing anal sex in a more frequency and varied way (from soft and tender to wild and brutal).
I don’t know if it’s too soon to say. Experienced forum members might be able to answer, but I really feel like I’ve moved on to another level.
I’ve become perfectly comfortable with my boyfriend despite his enormous cock, and to use NewFrivolity’s definition of sizes, my 5cm butt plug has really become very comfortable for me, while my old 4cm butt plug has become way too small, not to mention frustrating.
Now I’m starting to ask myself new questions. I must admit that I love the feeling of having my ass stretched, and now that I’ve gotten used to my boyfriend’s cock and my 5cm butt plug, I feel like I’m perhaps enjoying it less. I’m increasingly wanting to upgrade to a bigger plug so I can feel the extreme stretching again. Do you think that would be a good idea?
I would say, go for it! Be careful not to tear anything (i.e. stop when things hurt, don’t go too fast, you know the drill) and have fun above all else.
One thing I wonder about though is this: Do you enjoy the stretch of your boyfriend’s cock, or is it the depth / the fucking? Because if you need the big stretching feeling while fucking, too, going up a plug size and making that plug your comfortable one might reduce the joy of being stretched by your boyfriend.
Plug or stretching play might just as well become something you two do together.
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Actually, sex with my boyfriend is a pleasure in itself. His enormous thickness as much as his length, the softness of his penetration as much as his hardness and brutality.
But playing with the plug and the stretching that accompanies it is another kind of pleasure. I loved the play that pushed me to my limits at first with the 5cm plug. Unfortunately, I got used to it. I want to get that back and I need a bigger plug.
I ordered a new 6.1cm diameter glass plug. And since I also wanted to explore the sensation of deeper penetration than my boyfriend’s 10 inches, I ordered a 13-inch dildo for a smaller diameter than my boyfriend’s.
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No need for training or plugs, take it slow, lots of foreplay. My petite spouse takes my girth without hesitation.
I’d say you’ve got things figured out. Keep us posted if you like!
So, we were able to start playing with my new toys this weekend.
Fantastic!
This new 6.1cm diameter glass plug is really what I needed!
Honestly, I was a little worried that going from 5cm to 6.1cm would be too much, but it wasn’t. Of course, I had to go slowly, but it didn’t hurt me. And above all, it was such a pleasure to feel my little asshole stretched to the max again. I think my favorite part is feeling my anus open when my boyfriend slides the plug in or out.
We also played with the 13-inch dildo, and I couldn’t believe it, but I was able to take it all the way in. I’m really impressed by the depth of my asshole!
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The strong pleasure of getting intensely stretched 
It is very exciting to know that you are getting more and more open with time, right ?
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Yes, that’s exactly it!
There’s, of course, the immediate pleasure of feeling my anus stretched and penetrated. But even though I know I have to be careful and cautious, the idea that I could become more and more open over time and that I could take even bigger and absolutely enormous things up my little asshole excites me to no end.
I really have to admit it.
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… that I could take even bigger and absolutely enormous things up my little asshole excites me to no end.
Though I am a man, I completely understand the anal feelings you describe and I share them in regard to my own activities (solo and with my wife “doing” me). “Your mileage may vary”, but for me, the feelings and sensations just get better and better – and I have been at it for decades. 
Keep on having as much pleasure as you can tolerate!
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By the way, be careful about that 13-inch dildo – that might be short enough that, if it does not have a large enough base, it can get “sucked in” beyond your ability to easily reach it (unless you have a friend with very small hands) and depending upon your internal corners and curves, it can be awkward to retrieve.
My solution has been to use a much longer dildo – one that is longer than the body’s ability to “suck it in”. Then – your mileage may vary – a base may not be necessary. This means one might be able to use a double-ended dildo (which can have other fun applications too). In my case (I am a man of average height and build), 18 inches is a “safe” distance for ME – I can still easily get it all the way in, but it does not travel further than I can retrieve it. For even more safety, anything from 22-30 inches would be even better. Of course that means that, depending upon your body, it won’t all fit inside, but that is the safety aspect at work.
I don’t know where in the world you are located… I don’t think there are any U.S. makers of such long SILICONE dildos. I know there are a couple in the UK. I got one type (called a “depth trainer”’ it has a bit of a handle on it but all insertable if you can go that deep) from Crackstuffers.com. Note that they emphasize serving the Gay market, but a toy is a toy.
Their silicone range: Silicone – Crackstuffers
Their “depth trainers”: Silicone Depth Trainers - 4 Sizes – Crackstuffers
There is also Anal Depth Trainers | Depth Trainer Sex Toys | Sinnovator – I have enjoyed a couple of the https://sinnovator.com silicone products. They are not specifically targeting the gay market, but their designs are sometimes very weird (and can be made in a spectrum of colors), but then maybe weird is good? They have quality silicone products and I experienced excellent customer service.
At one point in time, I thought that Sinnovator said that they trans-ship to their U.S. warehouse and then your item is shipped to you from within the U.S., avoiding potential customs hassles and surprise costs (especially nowadays and/or very soon unless something changes – thanks to you know who). HOWEVER, their current website information states that their shipping is direct from the UK.
If you (or anybody) are in the U.S. and ordering from overseas, just be sure to check out how the seller handles their shipping logistics (what country it ships from to you; or whether they ship in bulk to a U.S. warehouse and then ship to you) and determine what the tariff implications may be for you.
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As AnalLover told you, it is possible to go both for more depth and more girth in a safe fashion. Just be mindful to
a) listen to your body, don’t use any numbing agents or poppers that could interfere with how much you can feel your body, and avoid pain, and
b) be careful about the toys you buy, both in quality (no jelly products, body-safe, platinum-cured silicone, glass and steel of good quality), and of course, always make sure you can retrieve everything. A flared base is a must 
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If you’re looking for inspiration, you could check out the content creator AlexBreeCooper, she’s a petite woman as well and achieves amazing feats with her butt. In case you’re into that.
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Then we are the same on that point !
I love to gape wide open after a good and long session. I also love to know how open I am back there.
I have some gaping technics to get the best gape you can. This is so exciting for me. Sometimes I check myself in a mirror during play and it feels so good to see itself so open.
Can we send private messages on this forum ? If yes, feel free to send me one as I would not like to pollute the forum with “off topic” discussions. You can speak in french it is my mother language.
For the moment, I am between 7.6 and 7,8cm large. Sensations are amazing 