As @aNewFrivolity said, I’m completely mistranslating. I certainly didn’t mean fisting, but fingering with 1, 2, or 3 fingers. I’m really not ready to take my boyfriend’s enormous fist.
The information about your wife’s limits seems very interesting to me. As you explain, these limits are with stainless steel or glass plugs, which are much harder than a penis. I know this about my boyfriend because we had fun measuring him against a cock 61mm in diameter at its widest point and 24cm long. That seems bigger than your wife’s limits, but a penis isn’t a glass plug!
Okay! So no plugs at work. I understand, and thanks for the advice because I certainly would have made the same mistake.
I keep my plugs for home near my lub. That way, I can also try a larger size and easily change them if it hurts after a while.
My question might seem silly to you, and I suspect it depends on the person, but in your opinion, what size is considered as a “large” plug?
Your results may vary, there’s no harm in trying. But I’d suggest starting with chores around the house or a shopping trip, not going straight for an eight hour shift.
It’s not a silly question. What’s considered large really depends on the person and their experience with anal. Why do you ask?
I ask myself a lot of questions, and deep down, I don’t really have any reference points. I read things, but it remains vague and subjective. And I can’t talk about it to my friends, who don’t really share my point of view on anal sex. Normal, abnormal, small, big, too much, not enough, …
Your boyfriend is very thick at 61mm in diameter. My wife measured me at 57mm, or about 2.25” in diameter. A 2” diameter stainless or glass plug is more difficult for her to take than my 2.25” diameter cock because even an erect penis “gives”. This is why you can train your ass with a toy of less diameter than the man’s penis.
If you and your boyfriend are willing to spend a few bucks, the plugs from the vendors below are safe and effective tools to train and pleasure your ass. My wife’s favorites for wear are 1.5” and 1.75” in diameter (38mm and 45mm). At 57mm in diameter, I am able to easily penetrate her ass when she’s “warmed up”.
Below is her favorite 2” diameter glass plug. She doesn’t wear this plug. Instead, I use it to stretch her ass during foreplay. Ryan, a member of this group, makes these custom glass plugs and anal toys. As I mentioned, this plug is at her limit and makes her squirt when inserted and removed.
My advice is to purchase quality stainless and glass plugs. These are being inserted deep in your body. You want glass that won’t break and quality stainless steel that won’t leach dangerous chemicals in your body. Quality plugs and toys will literally last forever and could become family heirlooms!
Thank you so much for this information, Colt! It’s really helpful, and I understand some things a little better. I looked at the box of my current plugs. It’s a set of three stainless plugs that I bought to enlarge myself for my boyfriend. So, I made a good choice at first without realizing it. They’re 2.5 cm, 3.2 cm, and 4 cm.
I no longer use the 2.5 cm plug, which I find too small, but I use the 3.2 cm and then the 4 cm to prepare myself for sex with my boyfriend.
Based on our discussion, I should probably buy a 5 cm plug now to practice and play with my boyfriend. What do you think?
I could continue using the 3.2 cm and 4 cm plugs to expand myself by keeping them in my ass during the day and evening at home. I’m not going to order from the USA right away but I found this plug in France, what do you think?
I don’t speak or read French so I can’t read details. You want to make sure the glass is Pyrex or another glass compound that doesn’t break easily.
This plug is almost identical to the one I bought for my wife and should be perfect if your interest is in teaching your ass to open up. Even though it’s smaller in diameter than your boyfriend’s cock, you’ll be able to take him with ease once you learn how to take this glass plug.
WARNING! Everyone who uses a plug needs to understand that plugs can end up all the way in the rectum if the ass opens up enough to swallow the base. The thick neck/stem of a glass plug makes this more possible than a thin neck metal plug. Early in our anal only relationship, my wife’s ass “swallowed” a smaller stainless plug when her sweet hole opened up enough to take it all in. Fortunately, she was able to squat and push it out, avoiding an embarrassing trip to the emergency room! Because of that, I do not recommend you wear this thick, glass plug.
In general, the base of the plug should be much wider than the head, or top of the plug.
I’d ask your boyfriend to use this plug on you. I find it very erotic, and I may enjoy doing it more than my wife enjoys having it inserted. If he licks or rubs your clit, it will make it easier. Use plenty of lube, and never use a numbing agent.
Welcome to the group and let us know how this thick glass plug works for you. Have fun!
Yes, it’s made of very durable glass, as clearly explained in the description. I just ordered it and will receive it in two days! I can’t wait to try it!!!
Thank you, I understand your warnings about the risks of this plug.
I completely agree with the numbing agent. I risk injuring myself if I go too far, but above all, it would be a shame to lose all the pleasure of feeling my anus enlarged and be invaded.
Of course I let you know how this thick glass plug works for me as soon as possible!
Be careful, a lot of vendors lie about what their products are made from. If you can, always buy from the original maker of the toys, be it a company or an individual.
I can recommend the shop called Glassvibrations, they are based in Europe and I own some of their pieces. I’m very happy with them.
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I enjoy double anal most weeks. Our group normally meet on a Friday evening and spend the weekend together. Of course if one of the girls can’t make it, most of the time their men still rock up and make things very interesting! Our friend Tiff is the triple anal girl. She enjoys it more than anyone else!!
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It’s really great to have a group of friends like that when you love sex. I’d really love to have that one day!
Just one question: how do you do triple anal? With two guys and a dildo? I’ve had double penetrations several times, and I can imagine what positions you’d use for double anal, but what about triple anal? I’m wondering how the third guy should position himself?
Its a bit like Tetris lol. When I did it, I started off on my back with one, normally Cory (the biggest) under me with another giving double. After 5 minutes the third squats and pushes in on top of the other 2. It takes a bit of practice with some trial and error but it is fun and can be a laugh getting it right
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I received my new 5cm diameter plug last Friday and I’m very happy with it.
The first use on Friday evening must have been a bit slow because there’s a significant difference with my old 4 cm plug. However, it didn’t hurt at all and it was a real pleasure to feel my boyfriend playing with it and enlarging my anus.
Over the course of the weekend, we used it a lot and it got easier and easier. I even kept it in my asshole for several hours on Sunday afternoon. Sunday evening, when we wanted to play with my old 4cm plug, I even got a little frustrated feeling this little thing in my ass. 
Playing with this new plug also really helped me with my boyfriend’s huge cock. The best part was when we made love Sunday night in the kitchen. It was almost without foreplay. I sucked him off a bit, lubed his dick with coconut oil, he turned me over, lubed my ass and then took my ass standing up against the kitchen table directly, very hard and very rough. It didn’t hurt and it was one of the best fucks of my life. I came 3 times! 
Well, I wouldn’t say that the 5cm plug has become my comfortable size yet, because the intense use of this we hides the reality, but I think that with a bit more practice it’ll be easy for me and my old 4cm plug will soon become too small.
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Do you think the 5cm plug helped you take your boyfriend’s cock with greater ease? There’s no “give” with glass but even a large fleshy cock has some “give” to it.
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Yes, it really helped me, I’m sure of it. Repeated training throughout the weekend really loosened my anus to the point where I was able to take his huge cock directly and without foreplay on Sunday night. Whereas until now, it took a lot of preparation to allow my little asshole to take it, and even gently.
Sunday night, not only was it direct, but it was also harder and roughest than ever, even in my pussy.
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In recent months I’ve enjoyed using a 5cm plug before enjoying double anal. It just makes it a lot easier and more enjoyable. I wasn’t always a fan of plugs however am a convert now!
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Mrs Colt’s 5cm stainless plug weighs 2 pounds or just under a kilo. 45 years ago, if a woman told me she had a kilo in her keister I’d have thought I died and went to heaven having found a woman with a kilo of cocaine and ready for a good anal fucking.
She doesn’t wear the massive stainless and glass plugs. They’re strictly for stretch sessions.
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Well, I’ve been using my new 5cm plug for about ten days now. A huge thank you to everyone who helped and advised me. For the past 10 days, I’ve been training a lot with this plug, and now I use it very easily. My boyfriend and I play with it a lot, and I wear it every day at home for 1 to 2 hours to enlarge me.
I now experience my anal sex and my sexuality in general so much better, despite the size of my boyfriend’s cock.
Okay, vaginal sex still requires a lot of preparation, but that’s no longer a problem at all because anal sex has become simple and natural, and that’s what I prefer! Whether it’s for tender lovemaking, for play, or for hard, brutal sex. For several days now, 90% of penetrations have been anal, and my little pussy is now only used for foreplay and other pleasures. And my boyfriend and I love it!!!
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Seems like the anal only lifestyle is lurking around the corner for the both of you.
I feel that last step till no pussy penetration isn’t far away.
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Glad it’s working out for you and your boyfriend. As you’re learning, it takes time for your body to train and “learn” how to enjoy anal sex. As you’re also learning, there’s nothing more erotic. Enjoy!
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