The one who sleeps inside

Introduction
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Hello everyone! I’m from Brazil, and I’ve been following you since the old forum. I’m mostly a reader, but sometimes I have things and thoughts to share, so I decided to register again.

Me and my wife, we are almost anal only, maybe 95% anal. Occasionally we try vaginal… only to be sure that is not thaaat good. Our main activity is to sleep buried deep inside, lovingly connected in a spoon position. Man… there is nothing better than waking up with your penis fully inserted in her cozy ass, and then feel it growing until her colon grabs my glans. Then, just close my eyes, fall asleep and repeat. In the morning, wake up and fuck until the brain melts.

That’s it! I hope I can contribute to this wonderful community!

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Too much lube?
My wife is a squirter
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Welcome, fellow Brazilian :heart_hands:t2: hope to see more from you here.

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Welcome to the forum, we’re looking forward to more of your contributions!

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Sounds awesome, welcome to the community.

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Thank you all for accepting me as a member. Let me bring back my story from the old forum so you all can understand my current life.

“Sleeping with ‘him’ in there” has been our favorite game since we get married. For years it was vaginal only, she likes the feeling of being filled in spoon position and we have few problems to get to sleep connected in that way. Actually, we had only two problems:

  • When I went soft, the lube and the secretions naturally made me slide out and the game was over. We missed a sphincter and we didn’t know.
  • To avoid slipping out, once a while I started to thrust just the bare minimum to make it hard again. But when she woke up with my movements, often she was irritated and put me out, or sometimes she just changed sides, facing me. End of game.

Our story changed in December 2017, that night from 23 to 24. We started sleeping with it inside the vagina as usual, but in the middle of the night I woke up and I was out. As I felt it getting hard, I just applied a bit of lube and resumed my previous position. As expected, my penis penetrated her VERY VERY slowly to not wake her up, and I didn’t any movement, I just stayed quiet with just the tip inside. When the sun rose, a few thrusts were enough to make me come. Later that day, she said: “You have already got your Christmas gift, huh? You fucked me in the ass this night.” I swore to her and I swear to all of you, it wasn’t intentional and I didn’t even feel the difference. “But why didn’t you warn me? Did I hurt you? Why didn’t you take it off?” She answered: “I woke up and at first I felt weird, but as you stayed still, it didn’t hurt at all. Then I just kept quiet, experiencing the sensation.”

It took me a few weeks before I got the green light to try again. Then, consciously, I prepared her ass carefully with all my love before our first official anal sex session, and we both enjoyed very much (and YES, there is a HUGE difference between the holes). After a few months of practice, we tried for the first time to sleep with him inside… but ‘behind’. It is always in spoon position. I apply a silicon-based lube on me and inside her ass, and guide the penis to the entrance. A very little pressure to keep from sliding sideways, and the tip is inside. This is the time to turn off the lights and make me confortable on my side, waiting for minuts while her ass pulls me inside very, very, very, very, very slowly. One last adjustement in my position and then I am prepared to stay buried, balls deep all night long. It is very romantic to sleep so close like this, but there are some rules in our contract:

  • I can’t move, otherwise she wakes up and puts me out.
  • I can’t come, otherwise she urges to go to the bathroom. Yes, it’s a kind of orgasm denial, but my reward is in the morning, when my swollen cock can fuck her ass as much as I can.
  • If we need to pee, ok: disconnect, go to the bathroom, reapply lube and restart.
  • If we need to turn the side, she goes to my side of bed and I go to her side. Reapply lube and restart.

No problem to go limp, as her sphincter locks me in (actually, it works as a cock ring, blocking me from losing all of my erection). The best part of the game is when I wake up in the middle of the night feeling him getting hard, very slowly, filling her empty space little by little. And I have this happiness many times a night. In the morning she feels great, and magically she spends all the day in a good mood, aroused for no apparent reason, waiting for the next time we can “sleep with him behind”.

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Now that is an introduction :slight_smile:

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OMG, now rereading the story, a lot of memories came back to me.

I wrote this in 2021, and few things have changed since then. Now I don’t need lights on to guide my cock to her ass, nor patience to wait for it to go all the way in. We sleep with ‘him’ inside once or twice a week, and it’s ok if I slip out or if we get tired: we no longer challenge ourselves to stay in all night long. In the middle of night, if I feel hard again, I can plug in her and continue to sleep. Or if she wants some action, she signals it by squeezing it or rolling her ass very sensually. A mind blowing session follows…

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The mind blowing experience of anal penetration is one of the reasons our group exists.

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I have an important update to share with you all.

First of all, I need to explain that my wife and I have built a repertoire of sex positions since we got married. There is a position for when we are tired, another for when she is feeling lazy, a few others to do under the covers when the night is cold, and so on. Since we included anal sex to our routine, we’ve been testing and adapting positions from vaginal to anal, one by one. Believe me, sometimes it’s not a simple task, especially when it comes to a couple in their 50’s, not so athletic and slightly overweight, with the common knee/back pain typical of that age. “Bend the back a little more”, “put the leg here”, “my foot is tingling”, “you are smashing my balls”… you get the picture. But it’s worth it when the adjustment results in a better position, with things in the right spot and in the right hole.

From time to time, we miss one of the “vaginal only” positions and decide to try it again… only to remind ourselves that, since her menopause, her vagina has lost elasticity and now penetration is uncomfortable and painful. “Let’s change to another position so you can put it in the other hole”. I’ve heard that many, many times, the last time was in July. So, when she suggested to try one of our last “vaginal only” positions this morning, I made a counter-proposal: “we should try it in the ass”.

“Start like this”, “bend your leg here”, “turn around”, “give me a hand”, “move with me”, and… eyes rolling, I was balls deep fully inserted in her ass. Then I heard the most beautiful words of my entire life: “now we can SEAL the other hole”. Thank you, God, for allowing me to live to hear this!

So, now it’s official, we are an anal only couple. I have just updated my status in my profile page. The good question is: since July or since this morning?

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  1. Congratulations!

  2. You had me laughing out loud with your description of the difficulties of “a couple in their 50s”. Just wait another 10-20 years – it does not get any easier. However, of course, there is no law that “a couple in their 50s” (or 60s or 70s) can’t get more exercise, stretching, time in a gym, etc. (Easier said than done.) [However, I would suggest being VERY gentle and careful, and perhaps with a doctor’s consultation. Back when she was in her late 50s, my wife tried out an exercise dance video – after ONE session, all that did was stir up her many kidney stones with multiple trips to the hospital, procedures, etc., a saga that lasted several years and many procedures to get most of the kidney stones out. Thank goodness for high quality health insurance.]

  3. I guess it is time that we “people of a certain age” start doing stretching exercises before we start “stretching things”. :grinning_face: Just like we should be doing before other physical activity. (Easier said than done.)

  4. When you said “…since her menopause, her vagina has lost elasticity and now penetration is uncomfortable and painful.” it reminded me to mention that women should still see a gynecologist at least every 2-3 years, if not more often, after menopause. My wife was having similar problems as you mention (which can affect more than just sexual discomfort) and her gynecologist instructed her to apply a very small amount (pea-size) of a prescription estrogen cream to a specific area inside the labia (not actually inside the vagina), every other day. That made a world of difference for the dryness, discomfort, and other issues – well beyond sex. You might mention this to your wife in case she has not brought up the subject with her doctor (preferably a gynecologist – a lot of primary care doctors, especially men, are not well trained on this particular subject). (BTW, this is not “hormone replacement therapy” as that is usually thought of.)

Keep on exploring. I look forward to reading the next episode.

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Thanks! A lot of good advices, not just for me but for everybody.

After diagnosing my knee problem, the doctor prescribed some weightlifting exercises for me. But at the gym, the program included exercises for the whole body, not just the legs. When my wife saw the results in my body after a few months, she decided to go too. We had already tried this same position in the ass years ago, but I think we only succeeded it yesterday thanks to this routine of exercises. So, it’s paying off!

About the gynecologist, yes, she goes once a year for routine checkups, including the mammogram. When the menopause started, the doctor prescribed estradiol cream applications to relieve symptoms of dryness and discomfort during penetration, but the result was not worth the effort required to apply the cream (and the necessary sexual abstinence after applications). At the same time, the other hole was getting used to the work and, in the end, the fun side won the preference. No complaints from any of us!

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The hormone that controls a woman’s libido is testosterone. My 67 year old wife is on hormone therapy that includes testosterone and is the reason why we became anal only 7 years ago. Your wife may want to seek hormone therapy that includes testosterone.

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Last week, she asked me if there was some kind of Viagra for women, to increase libido. Then I remembered your wife’s HRT and said a word or two about testosterone. Maybe she’ll mention this to her gynecologist at her next appointment.

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Make sure she mentions the inclusion of testosterone in the HRT. Many providers don’t include this for women but it is as essential for a woman’s libido as it is for men. Good luck.

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