Too much lube?

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I’ve always heard that, for anal sex, there’s no such thing as “too much lube”. So, during all these years, we’ve never run out of lube here. We have a personal preference for silicone-based lube because they last long enough for us to sleep all night with me sticked inside her.

But lately I’ve noticed that the same amount of lube results in too much slipperiness at the morning, which gives me some difficulties to cum. I need to feel her tightness, I need more grip, so I’m consciously reducing the quantity of lube little by little. It looks like her ass has been accumulating a bit of lube over all these years. Maybe in a few years we’ll reach the skill level of some couples here, who can do it using only saliva.

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My wife produces a thick, anal mucous. This is the natural function of the digestive system. It’s thick, white, and opaque in appearance.

She cleans out 95% of the time before an anal session but the anal mucous remains in her rectum. I think the water or saline from her pre-anal enema helps regenerate her anal mucous. The mucous is an excellent lubricant.

I’ve accidentally injested a large glob of her anal mucous when it slipped out into my mouth while I was toying her ass in 69 during anal foreplay. There is no taste to it and it didn’t kill me. Early in our anal journey, she gushed so much in my mouth while sticking a dildo in her ass in 69 that I’ve choked. That doesn’t happen as much anymore.

When I remove plugs from her ass, it’s covered in this mucous I spread it on her ass to help reinsert it. When I’m ready to take her, I only need a little saliva to wet the area around her sphincter to penetrate her. As I inch my way into her ass, it picks up the mucous and lubricates my cock. Subsequent thrusts pick up more mucous as I penetrate to full depth.

We NEVER need to use lube, even for longer sessions. Occasionally, we’ll have sessions where she wants a second anal orgasm after I’ve cum in her ass. We have large silicone and glsss anal dildos I use to help her achieve another anal orgasm. I’m usually able to insert the glass dildo without lube or saliva, but I need a little lube or saliva to insert the more flaccid silicone piece.

Our anal journey started 7 years ago when she started HRT and her libido was restored. I’m 7” in girth when erect, and this was the reason my wife said she’d never be able to take my cock in her ass. That’s ancient history now, and for a woman who declared she’d never be able to take me anally, she does so now with aplomb and doesn’t even need lube.

During our last session, she was so “wet” in her ass she had to feel where my cock was, mistakenly believing I slipped into her pussy. She also believes anal foreplay (and wearing plugs) contributes to the amount of mucous she produces.

I’m sure others produce the mucous. When you do, you might be able to minimize the amount of lube you use, at least for initial penetration. Both of us enjoy the “dance” of initial penetration when I carefully and deliberately penetrate her ass until I’m balls deep. This started several years ago when she requested we do it without lube.

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What Colt calls muccous, my wife and I call “butter in her ass”. Sometimes I penetrate her dry. Slowly and carefully. After I’m totally in, and assfucking her at full dept, the “butter” starts lubing us from the inside. It’s great.

We normally use coconut oil, the foodgrade kind. I too reduced the use of lube a lot, because I need to feel her spincter squeezing around my cock and she want to feel me fucking her asshole. Too much lube lowers our pleasure.