Yes, my wife is a serious squirter. Sometimes this is a blessing, sometimes it is a curse.
She is multi-orgasmic. With a good vibrator, she can orgasm every 10-15 seconds, with some breaks of 2-3 minutes before reaching a new sequence of non-stop orgasms. Imagine this in a sex session of 90-120 minute, and you’ll easily have more than 100 orgasms in one night. I think 90% of her orgasms are followed by a squirt, so the result is… a very wet bed. Of course, there’s always the option of having sex in the bathtub or standing up in the shower, or even on a plastic stool in the bathroom, but since our sex sessions are very long, a bed is much more comfortable.
Many years ago, we bought two large washable underpads made for people with urinary incontinence. We put one above the other and that solved a lot of problems… but sometimes the squirt would leak to the bed, or even the underpads would get so wet that they would leave the sheets damp. So we started using a pvc shower curtain underneath the underpads, which turned out to be the perfect solution.
When I penetrated her vagina, she usually told me that she felt blocked from squirting, and the orgasms were not that strong. But when I’m in her ass, she is free to squirt. I need to move at a slow pace, not only to be able to endure the duration of our sessions but also to not hurt her internal sphincter when she comes. I know she’s about to squirt when her internal sphincter squeezes the head of my cock. And it’s not a simple squeeze, it’s a REAL SQUEEZE. Then I have to stop my movements, grit my teeth, and try my hardest not to cum. Oh God… how I love this woman!
Shortly after my wife became comfortable with anal penetration she started squirting. I thought I’d died and gone to heaven.
We moved and she established a relationship with a new medical provider who reduced the testosterone she receives through hormone replacement therapy. She no longer squirts like she used to during anal penetration.
I can relate to the incredible eroticism of a woman who squirts (my wife was more of a “gusher”) when her ass is fucked. She still has convulsive anal orgasms but I miss the heavy gushing. She only squirts now when I use the largest plugs during anal play.
Now you’ve got me curious. What is the difference between a squirter and a gusher? I thought they would be the same (and the translations to my language don’t help me understand what the difference would be).
Some women squirt forcefully, projecting streams of liquid. My wife “dribbles” liquid as opposed to such forceful squirting. For example, when fucking her ass in missionary, her pussy would well up with liquid and flow down to her ass proving a warm natural lubricant. Unfortunately, she doesn’t gush as much as she used to because of a change in her hormone replacement therapy.
Ah yes, now I get it. My wife is like a small fountain, but I don’t see her trying to push it out. It looks like it was dammed up, accumulated and then released all at once.
We also use the term “gusher” or “gush” to describe my wife’s squirting, it’s nit a regular even for us but happens enough that we’ve decided to buy a pad to put over the mattress.
she has small gushes of liquid and will announce them - which I find hot. At times I’ve seen them, especially during cunnilingus. Sometimes I can feel the gush very strongly. More common during long sessions than quickies. She was initially embarrassed abt it, but with my acceptance and enthusiasm she has come to embrace that this is a good thing and to enjoy it as an expression of her sexuality. And the mattress pad removes the last insecurity about it.
In my wife’s case, she squirted more because of the hormone replacement therapy she received before we moved and she changed providers. We believe it’s attributed to the fact her previous provider recommended a higher dose of testosterone.
She still squirts, but mostly during foreplay when I use the large plugs and stretch her hole. I miss the squirting during penetration which happens very rarely now. I’ve asked her to request her provider up the dosage of testosterone, but it’s her body and decision.
I’d also add that squirting and anal orgasm are two entirely different things, at least for my wife. Squirting always precedes anal orgasm for her. She still experiences powerful, multiple anal orgasms, so the dosage didn’t affect that aspect of her anal only experience.
There’s not much reliable data on squirting / gushing, and the few studies done often focus on “proving” that squirting is just urine being expelled.
That being said, my pet theory is that when a woman is squirting, liquid is expelled (forcefully) through the urethra, and when she’s gushing, it dribbles/gushes out through the bartholin’s glands.
She cums only using a good vibrator (and we have several because they often run out of battery during our long sessions). She is still unable to cum with penetration only… which is good for us because then we can sleep with him inside .
I have experienced clitoral and vaginal orgasms however when I cracked anal orgasms, they are my favourite by a long way. I was advised that reducing or even stopping vaginal / clitoral orgasms, enhances the pleasure from anal orgasms. In my experience that is great advice.
