Hi! This is a question I’m curious to ask to the women who are currently anal only. Idk if I’m the only woman who feels this way. I always get icked and sex-repulsed, and I always felt a weird pain in my chest and my mood gets ruined immediately whenever I read and hear any vaginal-related topics. However, when it comes to anal, an adrenaline rush, dopamine and serotonin activates inside my braincells and body immediately, and I bring out the demons in me every time I masturbate my asshole only. Not to mention how my libido increases every time I masturbate my asshole only.
So let me put it this way, does your libido increases when you became anal only and start training your ass?
Speaking as a man, where were you many years ago when I was single?
I wish you had many clones.
Again, speaking as a man, I don’t get “icked and repulsed” in regard to vaginal sex, but all the other reactions apply to me as a man, whether thinking about anal sex with a woman, or thinking about anal masturbation of myself. I certainly recognize the “libido increases every time I masturbate my asshole…”.
However, this is not what you are asking about. I look forward to hearing what women say in response to your question.
My wife’s libido is the same as when we were vaginal only. She is not sexually driven, she is more romantic and likes the intimacy of the moment, the sharing of bodies, the “love’s dream” so to speak. So, when we included anal in our routine, the main difference was that she put aside all the objections she had to practice penetrative sex, such as discomfort, pain, dryness. She couldn’t receive my entire length without pain, and in cowgirl position for example, she couldn’t just sit back and relax. Additionally, when she reached orgasm, she felt blocked from squirt if I was in her vagina and often reported that the orgasms were not so strong as when she squirted.
As you can imagine, our anal-only sex life is now more active not because of increased libido or we feel more pleasure, but simply because it’s worry-free.
I understand what you meant. Practicing anal sex in a safe way, practicing hygiene understanding boundaries, and communication are equally as important as emotions and intimacy when it comes to anal only. Being afraid of getting pregnant and having best anal masturbation (with proper training and listening to my body all the time) is what leads me to become anal only. Every time I use my asshole only, it automatically makes me feel sexually aroused and my brain becomes blissful and connected in the right way when I focus on my asshole only, a natural stress reliever. Anal only is just raw and authentic pleasure, sensuality and arousal and my happy place Being anal only brings out the freak in me and makes me sexually aroused immediately
Umm idk why? I’m sorry but the first question made me feel very uncomfortable and I’m not seeking any hookups
Almost all mainstream media and discussions about sex are vaginal-centered and that’s what made me feel sex-repulsed and squeamish. Plus there are people who are still judgemental about anything related to anal and always measure a woman’s pleasure to doing it for their significant other, hence the reason why women like me should be vocal and destigmatize anything anal.
My wife isn’t repulsed by PIV, but she strongly prefers anal. We both only WANT anal so there’s no point in exploring vaginal intercourse. Anal play and penetration make her pussy drip, whereas vaginal penetration is meh for her. Because she always experiences anal orgasm and never had an orgasm during PIV, anal only was a no brainer.
I know a lot of men have different feelings on sex repulsion but that’s ok I know I sound dramatic and very sensitive because I truly am sex repulsed by anything vajayjay and do not want to get risk of getting pregnant.
From personal experience, many decades of oral birth control meds killed her libido. It even made clitoral orgasm difficult for her to achieve. I have arthritis in my thumb from the billions of circular motions I made on her clit! And as a result of long oral sessions, my tongue is strong enough to pull a commercial aircraft 100 yards.
Anal is the best and most natural form of birth control known to man. Fortunately for us. It is also the most enjoyable. How ironic is it that she discovered anal AFTER menopause. Cruel irony.
I’m not anal only, but I am a woman. I’ve been anal masturbating for a while, but finally had anal sex with my partner over the holiday break(s). Since I’ve been back at school, I’ve been EXTREMELY horny, and my fantasies increasingly center around butt stuff. When I think about him taking me in the back, I get all giddy and my heart beats faster. Now I can’t masturbate without putting something in my ass too, it seems. So while I don’t share your total distaste for vaginal, I definitely share the increased arousal and excitement when it comes to even just thinking about anal.
All of my fantasies revolve around anal only, too! I always fantasize about my potential man using my asshole only with a duct tape covering my front part, craving for the feeling of his nice shaft stretching my tight little asshole
I am sorry if my “question” was poorly worded and apparently easily misunderstood. It was a purely rhetorical question/statement. It was sort of like saying something about a wonderful type of food I might have discovered later in life and wished that I had known about it many years ago so that I could have enjoyed that type of food for decades more. I was not in the least meaning anything personal about you. My apologies.
My wife isn’t repulsed by vaginal sex. She simply don’t care for it anymore. We’ve been anal only for over 4 years now, and not once did I hear her say anything about wanting pussy sex. Not even once.
She’s 100% into having her asshole fucked. And she takes anything. I can penetrate her dry if I want. I can wake her up to assfuck her. I can shove it in her asshole any given time of day. It always works and she always enjoys it.
Back when we still did vaginal sex, her pussy needed some prep. Not her asshole, that hole is always ready to go. Even if she’s not in the mood for sex, the moment I penetrate her her mood shifts and she starts moaning.
Not a lady, but can I ask, is totally discarding even the mention of anything vaginal part of the thrill? Because that’s a big part of the appeal for me . I find the deliberate concentration on strictly only anal to be a big turn on.
BTW with regard to “man using my asshole only with a duct tape covering my front part”, you might want to try googling “Maebari” which is this exact fetish. I find it very stimulating.
I could’ve worded it better, maybe that’s why I’m kinda frustrated at the responses because the answers sort of don’t resonate with how I feel.. I’m only focused on anal only and ignoring the vajayjay.
Before her menopauze I enjoyed watching her pussy become dripping wet while her asshole got fucked. Now her pussy stays in full resting mode. Hardly even reacts anymore. It’s another joyfull sight.
My relationship with vaginal sex is complicated, but if we’re talking strictly in theory - I can be turned on at the thought of either, it’s just that actual PIV tends to leave me feeling a wide array of negative emotions, even if I like the idea of it. Whereas anal - it might be slightly more appealing and arousing to think about, and significantly better to experience.
Yes vaginas are frustrating to me. If you were looking for some validation, here it goes. I’m not a woman, but I share your distaste for vaginal sex. I’ve had it a few times, but it’s so underwhelming and boring it doesn’t feel like I’m having sex at all. Where are you from? Are you currently in a relationship? I’m from Brazil and 43 years old but if you saw me on the street you’d probably think I’m 30.
I’d appreciate if you refrain from asking me inappropriate and uncomfortable questions. I am NOT seeking out romance and this is not an invitation to slide uncomfortable dm’s. Please do not make it harder and uncomfortable for anal only women like me.
I don’t think my frequency of wanting sex increased switching to anal only (I’ve always wanted a lot of sex) but I think my desire is stronger for sure! Going from “I hope he’s not too tired tonight” to getting worked up all day thinking about what might happen later!
I always get icked and sex-repulsed, and I always felt a weird pain in my chest and my mood gets ruined immediately whenever I read and hear any vaginal-related topics. However, when it comes to anal, an adrenaline rush, dopamine and serotonin activates inside my braincells and body immediately, and I bring out the demons in me every time I masturbate my asshole only. Not to mention how my libido increases every time I masturbate my asshole only. 
Being anal only brings out the freak in me and makes me sexually aroused immediately 
. I find the deliberate concentration on strictly only anal to be a big turn on.