New to spanking

My girl and I are not into BDSM (I think) but we definitely enjoy some of the exercises, especially spanking. It is about 90% of the time and at the beginning years ago it was a novelty, but today it is a staple. Not sure about others but it is good for us…

Sorry, not new to spanking, bad headline

Spanking is another super fun way to include the butt during play time :smiley:

I guess most people would like spanking, the difference is only how hard. from hand patting to paddle and bruising. what level do you like?

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Spanking is only me to her although we have playfully talked about switching. Recently it has been hand patting but we mostly have done more firm spanking and a paddle here and there. It has become fairly regular and we both enjoy it.

we do it almost every one or two days. not only on ass, it could take some days to recover. thighs, arms, hands, feet, breasts are also good choices, and clit of course.
I have tried giving spanking a few times, to me it’s interesting but not as much as receiving.

Depending on the way and with what you hit someone, breasts, arms, hands and especially feet require a bit of foreknowledge to prevent serious injury. Inform yourselves, people! You’ll find lots of info via the keyword “impact play”.

I think it a personal thing. I sometimes, but rarely, slap her nice ass. But to me, spanking has no relation to pleasure and she never asks for it either.

If I slap her ass, it’s me complimenting her for her nice looking behind. :heart:

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Well, a nice ass deserves applause :smiley:

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Recently I saw a video of an Australian guy giving classes around the world on
spanking. The classes were 98% female so some women must have interest. He does have good advice including using a loose hand (new to me) and rubbing the ass regularly (something I have done from the beginning). For interested novices, try soft or medium spanks on your lady and see how she likes it.
Spanking should not bring tears in my opinion. That is a different type that we have not yet chosen to explore.

so you like soft spank. tears and bruising are kind of must have in a hard spanking session.
btw, spanking on ass with some ginger in anal is crazy.

Oh yes, this is called figging and goes back to Roman times, where it was supposedly used as a light punishment for female slaves (peeled ginger inserted into the rectum, that is).