New to spanking

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Yes, I should have entitled it something else as spanking is not new to us, but has become a standard go to in our sessions and is comfortable. She mentioned last year that she initially was not that into it, but has become a fan over time and enjoys it. Her butt is generally cooler when I disrobe her and that is my excuse to warm her up.

One more thing, I think it is dabbling in the BDSM world or at least D/s and that is ok with us and feels natural. Call me what you want but in the bedroom, it seems both parties are happier if the male is dominant and the female submissive.

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I don’t want to call you anything, but it seems you and your gf are into BDSM after all.
I mean, there’s no set hours of the day someone needs to submit or be dominant for it to “count”, and also no 40 things BDSM-people do, and if you don’t do 30 of those, you’re out.

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When I penetrate my wife’s ass, I feel like I own it. That said, with “ownership” comes great responsibility. Irresponsible owners can easily lose what they own if they don’t exercise care and respect. Without question, anal sex involves D/s dynamics. Trust on her part and care and respect on mine.

Once I penetrate her ass, I’m in the drivers seat (back seat actually) and she’s along for the ride. I control everything once she’s fully accepted me in her ass… pace and depth of penetration (always deep) and positions. It’s quite empowering to have this level of control. She also enjoys the dynamic and gladly takes what she is given. For us, the dynamic is as erotic as the act of anal penetration itself. Call it a pleasure multiplier.

Instead of spanking, my hands are all over her… pinching and pulling her nipples, grabbing her waist, spreading her ass open during penetration, and sometimes holding her throat (never in a choking way).

For us, anal opened the door to what I call our D/s “light” sexual dynamic. Do others (both men and women) feel the same way?

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Yes I recognize a lot from what you’re saying.

I too can’t keep my hands off her sweet body. One of my fav’s is grabbing her shoulders, while doing doggy, to be able to trust her asshole deeper and harder. She goes into full bliss when I do this.

Or holding her head down while I assfuck her pronebone. She says she loves the idea of being taken in her ass, while she can’t get away if she wanted to. She has an urge to be taken, it’s a submissive feature she has. It’s lovely.

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