Don’t worry Problem Talk, I’m in my early 60’s and even in your mid-twenties, you’re still a wiper-snapper haha. Even in your thirties, you still have room to discover who you are. Most men don’t get into their straps until the ages of 40-60. Before those ages, they’re sowing wild oats… LOL!
Have I had experiences? OMG, have I ever! I have personally come in touch with the unseen and it is not scary as people imagine. On more than one occasion I must add. I have walked through a Spiritual Portal. Therefore, I’m not scared of death or what is after death. And sometimes ask, why me? That is the mystery of life.
After being deeply “religious” for so long, & having an utterly amazing experience that I was able to put the different jigsaw puzzles that I had picked up in life and couldn’t get them to fit together.. the amazing experience that I had put those jigsaw puzzles together, into a beautiful picture. It guides me to this day. I saw “God”, “religion”, for what it was.
I agree with you wholeheartedly Backdoorlover that it is all man made. Any Monist religion is off path. It is all a tool of control.
I do believe in Infinite Intelligence.. heck, you only have to look at Nature, the Cosmos, the mathematical precision into woven through creation. “God” is to big to be confined into one religion, too big to be confined in man’s mind.. LOL!
@ProblemTalk I am not here to make you counteract on my comment. I am 55 years old and my comment is my view on religion. Nothing anybody says will ever change that.
Bottomline is, be a good person. No matter what your reasons.
Why would one fear what’s unknown and unseen ? Seems to me like waste of energy.
It’s exactly that mindset which keeps thousands of women from trying anal sex.
Welcome to the forum. I’m also a religious myself. Growing up with these unwanted desires was very unconfortable. I would pray to God to “cure” me, but He didn’t, as you probably can see. With time, I just accepted it and now I’m even kind of proud of it. Like a scar of war to remind me of my journey. I believe marriages can also be a consensual agreement between both partners, not necessarily involving the church or the state. Other than that, I agree that every sex outside of marriage is a sin. Nice to find like minded people in this community as well.
I had a catholic girlfriend in the past who was kind of into it. But I’m to blame because I could have talked to her but I was just too petrified of fear and shame. Looking back, if I had been wise, I suspect she would have agreed to be AO with me. I’m also a catholic.
I am Anglican.
Interestingly, I have only met Christian women who are into the backdoor, but unfortunately they were all either married or not my type so I am still praying to find someone, haha.
Good luck!
Everything happens in the right time. I think preference for anal is well distributed among all religions and creeds. I don’t think there’s a pattern of christian women enjoying it more than secular women.
I’m currently flirting/talking to one. We have so much in common, besides religion. I’ll have to talk about this subject with her, and let’s see how she reacts. But she’s a smart and inteligent woman and not that kind of crazy religious, so no worries. She’s looking interested so far. I’m optimistic =)