So, a man who often fucks vaginas is not anal only, it’s not a question.
But, what about a female who’s only fucked in anal, but fucks others vaginas frequently?
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I receive anal every time when having sex however I also use oral as part of the stimulation and almost always receive cum in my mouth. Think that means I’m not AO either!
You are Abbi. Not doing vaginal sex = defenition of anal only
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Thanks for that. I was pretty sure that was the case.
I think I understand your question… as a female, your preference to be penetrated anally makes you anal only. The fact your same sex partner may prefer vaginal intercourse doesn’t eliminate the fact you’re an anal only receiver. This dynamic only works for lesbian couples since they have two holes to work with.
So you mean you fuck other girls’ pussies with a strapon ? Then you yourself are still anal only cause your pussy remains unused.
To me that is the main condition to be called anal only.
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Right, I’m an anal only receiver. Glad I can still be on this site >_<.
Not only strap ons, also other toys, and my hands. And if tongue also counts, then I’m fucking my husband’s ass too. 
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More questions are popping out.
What about a men, if he doesn’t fuck a girl with his penis, but use other tools. Does this count as he’s fucking her?
What if the tool is another person, like he’s commanding another person to fuck a girl. Does this count as he’s fucking the girl?
Then, what if the another person is the girl herself. He’s asking her to fucker herself. Does this also mean he’s fucking her?
Sorry, I’m just curious about how people would understand those corner cases.
You do some severe overthinking here 
I can only tell you my view and that is dat for a man to be anal only there are three possibilities:
- He only fucks girls or guys assholes
- He only has his own ashole fucked
- Combination of the two above
All your other examples are not anal only in my view.
In my opinion tools are merely a warm up act. There is no substitute for a real cock or 2!
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I also think you’re overthinking it. We’re here because we love anal, not to bicker about what “counts” and what doesn’t as “anal only”.
Have fun with your butt and his and enjoy the comraderie here!
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Exactly! This is a group for all who enjoy and engage in anal pleasure. No need for strict criteria. Happy New Year everyone!
I don’t mean to question anyone. I simply just want to hear how people are thinking about the corner cases. It’s like when the ship of Theseus is not longer itself.
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I didn’t feel questioned, don’t worry.
I just think splitting hairs gets in the way of enjoying anal fun and possibly divides the community.
Imagine we had a community called “the real ship of Theseus” for fans of greek myths and philosophy. Too much reading into the title and figuring out what “real” means could be fun and mentally stimulating, but it could also set the philosophy and myth people against each other 
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As a straight guy, the AO certified status is for women who only take cock up their arse when being fucked. I have a penis centric view of the world. I do not think a guy can properly get certified as AO unless all his orgasms are up someone’s arse. I like the idea of my woman being AO but I still want her to suck my cock and even cum in her mouth.
If you’re a gay male, I guess that makes you AO but there really isn’t a choice is there? There is no vagina to foresake, so I don’t think it is the same. I think it is about choice and that is what makes an AO woman such a prize.
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I’m likely one of those rare hetero anal-only guys… certainly in this group. She has one hole I’m interested in, and while I entertain her clit and pussy with my mouth and fingers, I exclusively fuck and cum in her ass.
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I don’t like cum in my ass so ass to cum in mouth is my favourite was to receive a treat! Quite a few of my friends enjoy that act also although will take cum in their ass also.
What is the opinion on never having vaginal sex except for when you are trying to have children? Obviously you are anal only up until that point, but once you begin trying to have children, you are unequivocally using the pussy, despite your mindset not changing.
Treating the ass as the hole for pleasure and the pussy as a hole for only procreation seems like it is very in line with the anal only lifestyle. So are while you aren’t literally anal only, would it still be considered “anal only”?
I don’t care too much either way. Regardless of what “counts” to other people, I will happily do anal regularly, but still enjoy the intimate experience of vaginal penetration when trying to have children. I’m just curious what people’s opinions are.
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I’d say there are no “rules” for anal sex. I prefer to refer to them as “preferences”. Since we’re in our late 60’s (very late for me), there’s no need (or ability) to procreate. Ironically, our anal session on Sunday started with vaginal penetration for the first time in more than a year.
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I’m aware that there are no “rules”, but people will talk about how long they have been anal only, and there’s even an account descriptor you can select to share how long it’s been, and one of the options is “mostly anal only”, So there is definitely a distinction between “having a preference for anal” and “being anal only”.
Since that’s the what this topic is about, I just figured I’d ask. I personally think that only ever using the pussy for procreation and nothing else falls within my personal definition of anal only, since it’s not necessarily the action itself but rather the sentiment behind it.
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