AO 99% for about 15 years to a woman that never wanted me to even bring up the topic when we first got married 30 years ago. So if anyone wants to discuss how this happened let me know I had to write a first post to be able to post else where.
We would love to know. We love reading the stories of how others made the best possible life happen.
Welcome to the forum, and I would also welcome a post about your story as a couple
Welcome to the group. Similar story to yours except much later into our marriage. She changed from āI canāt ever take that in my assā to 100% anal only. Itās all about the orgasm for her. Was that the case with your wife?
Well itās gonna be kinda long but here goes we have been married 30 years to a woman that still has a great ass better than most women half her age . She has been as my kids call her a goody two shoes super straight laced and by the book Iād call her slightly uptight even if she has to do something mildly illegal like jaywalking just wanted you to get a good picture. So our marriage was pretty typical for the first 12 or 15 years we had 4 boys and our schedule was kinda crazy but the sex was ok nothing mind blowing but good fast forward and sex starts to become kinda painful and now she is requiring lube all the time and sheās sore the next day from just vanilla sex sheās entered the āchangeā about 15 years early, well fuck me this isnāt good. After years she had started letting me play with her ass (finger and licking) when before she wanted nothing to do with it I mean nothing she would get mad if I suggested it and to her defense she always had some stomach issues. We were out of town on vacation and we went out for dinner and drinks and she got pretty lit a couple days before I had fucked her pussy pretty good and she was sore and she drunkenly suggested after her 3rd margarita that we go back to the room and try anal honestly I almost came in my pants. So we went back to the room and started to get busy I had already bought buttplugs and lube and a I know Iāll catch hell a numbing agent some time before this hoping this day would come, Iāve banged a number of women in the ass through the years and Iām pretty good at getting them relaxed enough to succeed after probably and hour of anal teasing and probing she just sat up and said āfuck my ass nowā and I complied with her order slowly working my cock in while using a vibrator on her clit her ass just pulled me in and gently fucked her ass for about 5 minutes I could have gone a lot longer but I knew she was probably going to be sore because she wasnāt a 100% relaxed but man it was awesome watching her go from Sunday School teacher to anal slut before my eyes and I thought awesome sheās into it Iāll be able to fuck this ass regularly but that was not the case the next day she would barley speak to me and the next day I knew it was the anal she was sore but that wasnāt it she felt shame from her very very proper upbringing she wasnāt mad at me she was just ashamed of herself the taboo, slutty girl and all that stigma. Fast forward a few months weāre at a Church life group with our best friends house and my buddy hands me his ipad and asked me to find something we were looking for so I sit on the couch and open the browser and itās pages of bdsm and anal toys I looked up at my wife with wide eyes and she sat down next to me and when I opened the page again she blushed and suggested we go home and get busy but she didnāt want her ass fucked just played with again the next day silence but not as bad. A few weeks later her and her girlfriend the wife to my buddy ipad guy are out getting lunch and she tells her sheās seeing the gyno due to pain when her friend tells her she had the same thing and as she quoted āswitched to the other hole.ā This is where the fun starts weāre laying in bed that night and sheās telling me about her day when she brings up this conversation I stop working on my laptop because now it just got interestingā¦so long story short she wants to try anal and promises she wonāt get weird about it I try to contain my excitement but itās written all over my face 1/2 hour later sheās on top grinding, smiling, giggling, flush and dirty talking I donāt even know this woman at this point but hell who am I to complain. Something happened to her mentally once she found out her bestie was taking it in the ass and loving it and she was also a good church going girl, all her reservations and guilt went out the window and a new chapter had started in our life. She was still shy about it never asking for it but dropping hints like āIām going to walmart and sending me a picture of lubewith do we need more of this?ā or asking if I wanted to take her out tonight and get her drunk then she would turn her ass to me and look back at it. We had been working on the pain she had the next morning for some time and I finally nailed it I bought an anal training kit and some jetty dildos almost my size and some numbing agent I would play with her ass for about 30 mins and get her warmed up the key was the numbing agent she was always tense when I was about to enter her with anything and that made her clench which made her sore so i used a tiny bit of the numbing agent and on her and it took away the initial shock and clench and that helped her mentally get past it it wasnāt that I was training her ass I was training her head to trust me I would then take a small buttplug and use a magic wand on her clit after each orgasm I would swap it out for a larger one and while this is going on Iām telling her how fucking hot she is reenforcing anal with positive thoughts and pleasure then I got to one almost as big as me so her ass was clenching down on a buttplug but not closing best can describe it her ass āthinksā itās closed but itās open and ready and willing and no more after anal pain ever! One day she walks into my shop in a very pissy mood claiming I didnāt pay the water bill or something but I knew 100% I did, we get into it and in the middle of it she says āwanna betā I said what are you talking about āif you paid it you can fuck me in the ass tonight if you didnāt you take me out to dinner and get me drunk.ā Now the light bulb goes on this woman is to shy to ask me to fuck her ass so sheās inventing ways to get it without asking for it so of course I open my open and show her the paid bill she says ok and starts to blush and walks back in the house after that night I just tell her to tell me in whatever way she needs to let me know and she does sometimes, now this thing gets shoved into high gears and man it was full throttle for like 5 years more than I could handle some weeks. She worked close to home and I work from home and she would send me a text asking if I was home I was almost always home she would show up 5 minutes later pull the lube from her purse and bend over the dinner table and just āI only have 30 minutes for lunch!ā or I would step out of the shower and she would be bent over with a buttplug up her ass and proclaim it doesnāt fit well so I should loosen it up some or driving back from a friends hose and asking me to pull over into the woods and tell me to use my spit for lubeā¦full anal porno queen fucking that hole as hard and as fast as I can, We noticed something about this time her stomach problems went away I can only guess she holds her stress in her gut and well I guess I fuck it out of her regularly so awesome and her migraines became much less frequent. Fast forward to today literally today sheās at work with a buttplug up her ass sending me filthy text messages and after 15 years of hitting that hole iām still horney as fuck for it, she fell asleep on me last night and i told her after dinner and drinks Iām going to fk her ass raw after sheās sucked my balls for a while and all I get is heart, peach, panting and spaying water emojis. Needless to say Iām in a very good place. And thatās my AO story sorry if itās to long or tmi but I figured Iām in a pretty like minded crowd. Oh almost forgot I have been an assman and had an ass fetish since puberty.
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It is a hard read, youārebright about that. Not because itās long, because it ās written like a rant 
Got through it anyway and all I have to say is āI love itā.
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Yeah ADHD and writing is murder.
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This is one of those stories that are an example that you donāt have to like anal out of the box: itās about the path you go through to like it.
Like I first didnāt like dark chocolate, but as Iāve grown older, I started to appreciate other flavors and came to love it.
Also, I agree with @Backdoorlover that the writing was a bit hard to read.
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What a great story. Imagine how many marriages could not only be saved, but vastly improved but adding anal; there is something magical about it.
You probably would not be the happy couple you are if her friend did not share her experiences with your wife. You owe that woman an extra large āthank youā.