You and Mrs Colt are an inspiration for me. Showing that age is not a barrier to enjoying an amazing sex-life. A little bit of pain is a turn on for me because it means that the pleasure is not far away!
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Two things I would like to add in terms of safety:
Vegetables don’t have a flared base and can get lost, or break off if you’re making sudden moves. Either why you don’t want to add to the doctor’s secret file of “x rays of objects that we pulled out of asses”.
Secondly: I know prolapse porn is common in the world of extreme anal, but please keep in mind that any kind of prolapse is a serious medical condition. If you practice extreme anal, it might be a good idea to have a doctor you can trust on board (like siswet has) and, to re-iterate, stretch slowly and naturally, like alexbreecooper does.
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We were really talking about the ultimate goal, so I don’t know if I’ll succeed.
However, stretching my asshole has really become my favorite activity, almost an obsession. These last few days, I’ve even been constantly looking for moments to keep my 5cm plug in for hours.
I don’t know if others, especially women, have experienced this need?
I know the Boss Hogg seems enormous, but when I see girls like Siswet or Hotkinkyjo, who are certainly taller than me but still have small asses, they manage to take toys even bigger than the Boss Hogg. Toys that seem to split her two ass cheeks totally apart. Like 50% of her ass area is the toy itself.
We have specialist colorectal nurse with quite a few years experience on site! You would think that some of the things she has seen and treated, would put her off anal sex. She is probably the dirtiest of the 4 of us lol. alexbreecooper is incredible. Very talented!
For fisting myself, it’s really happen like, “Oh wait, now I’m so loose that maybe I could even fit my hand.” I’ve always fingered myself, especially when I lube myself, but no more than 2 or 3 fingers. And then we talked a few weeks ago about my bad translation between fisting and fingering. I then started thinking about fisting, and when I was stretching with the 5 cm plug, at one point I thought, why not see if I can? I put my 3 fingers in like usual, then the 4th went in by itself, then the 5th, and before I knew it, I had put my whole hand in. It was actually quite easy. Now fisting my ass is part of my lube routine.
Thanks for your advice on using my toys to reduce costs. I still ordered a Gapkeeper 93. I really wanted it.
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Hello, I’m giving you an update. I received the Gape Keeper 93 on Monday. It took a little while because I think it came from Canada.
Even though it’s softer than my 6cm glass plug, the 7.6cm of the Gape Keeper makes a real difference. I like to be very dilated, but I’m also very careful not to hurt myself. So I took it slow, and the first few days I couldn’t get it in, but tonight I’m really excited 
because it’s finally in, and there’s no real pain, just the pleasure of being stretched like never before. Now I think it will be easier because I know I can, and without hurting myself, when I’m well prepared.
My 5cm glass plug seems smaller and smaller every day! 
The other good news is that while stretching for the Gape Keeper, my boyfriend managed to fist my ass.
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Congratulations Vanessa ! I am so happy for you 
It is impressive how fast you are stretching yourself. This is why I advised you the Gape Keeper 93, I knew you could take it fast 
Before trying to insert it these past days, how were you preparing (penis + dildo, fingers from your boyfriend, several plugs in) ?
How does it feel ? Personally I feel the plug is really expanding my whole rectum which creates very high sensations and shakes.
Happy for the fisting ! Honestly I have big hands and it is only after inserting the Gape Keeper 93 that I could fit my hand. This toy is really in the extreme category for me 
Thank you, Anal-is-Art!
Honestly, I don’t know if I stretch faster or not than others. I don’t know if it’s possible, but maybe I have a predisposition. But actually, I don’t really think so.
I’d lean more toward intense training. As I’ve already said, I’m hypersexual 
. Sex with my boyfriend is once or twice a day, or more, and with at least an hour of intense stretching daily. Add to that the fact that I never miss an opportunity to wear my 5cm plug. When I’m at home or for a quick outing, or even more so if I have easy access to a bathroom to re-lube myself. I get so much pleasure from stretching my asshole! I dream of getting fucked by really huge things.
To prepare for the Gape Keeper, our most classic routine is:
- Direct sex if I’m already lubricated, otherwise we play while I’m lubricated between my fingers, these fingers, and my fist.
- Play with dildos or a smaller butt plug. Lately, I’ve been able to use up to three normal-sized dildos or two good-sized dildos.
- We work on my limit plug. The Gape Keeper now.
- We usually finish with a second fuck with a good-sized dildo in addition to my boyfriend.
As for the feeling, I, like you, loved the expansion of my rectum. It’s incomparable to my old toys. However, I think what I prefer is the feeling of my anus stretching when the plug is inserted or removed.
Yes, the Gape Keeper is great, I completely agree. But even if I don’t know if I’ll be able to do it, I still see this new plug as a stepping stone because I’d really like to move on to something even bigger afterward.
That sounds like you have found a toy that works for you. I have the 100 and love it. I had it in last night to continue the pleasure I had following our evening of ‘fun’. It was so relaxing before going to sleep
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Hello Vanessa,
Okay, I see your point of view. You could also start to sleep with your 5 or 6 inches plug to continue your asshole expansion. If you are like me, you will love to be constantly open and stretched. Plus it is an additional anal training 
I also love the stretch when the plug is inserted and removed, especially the first insertion as my anus is still not so loose which makes the sensations quite extreme. Even if I get pounded by it during a bit of time, waiting 30 seconds before re-inserting it is enough to almost feel like it is the first insertion again.
Once it is inserted, ask your boyfriend to remove it and insert it back and continue until the time between each insertion becomes very small (like a classic dick fuck). You will see the sensations A little tip to get a huge gape: doggystyle position, ass up, face down (for gravity purpose). The fact that the toy is completely removed and pushed back each time will make your anus unable to know how to react anymore (tighten or remaining loose). So, your anus will remain totally open, leaving a huge gape. You may fart occasionally but it is just the air pushed back by the plug each time it is inserted. This is this air pushed in your rectum that will create this perfect gape. So embrace it, it is part of the game and should be exciting as it relates to the extreme aspect of the moment.
Trust me, you will be able to entirely take the Boss Hogg XL one day. I know how you can do it but for the moment let’s enjoy the travel (I am sure you already do) instead of focusing on the destination 
Wow impressive Abbi !
Do you manage to directly insert it or you need a bit of prep?
It must create nice gapes 
Lol we all have nice gapes. Kaz seems to keep hers longer than anyone! I don’t always prep but if I’m going to have triple then I put one of my dildos in for an hour before hand. I used to meticulous with my prep but these days I don’t need to be as judicious! Do you find prep is helpful?
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Hey Abbi,
I mean’t, do you need prep before inserting the Gape Keeper 100 or you just insert it directly without too much pain ?
From a general perspective, I think that prep can be helpful before a session where we know we will challenge ourselves in terms of stretching. But according to me, the prep should be already stretching a bit otherwise it is not that useful. I mean, for instance, if you will go for TAP in the evening, prep with a small 1 inch plug would be useless while preping with your gape keeper would be super helpful as you would arrive at your event already quite loose
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I do DAP on a regular basis. I prep before we meet up by having my boyfriend’s cock in my ass. Its also his favourite way of getting warmed up! I’ve never had a 1-inch plug lol. I gave gone to uni with a discreet 4-inch plug on a Friday, looking forward to getting my ass stretched properly later!
Do you mean 4 inches in diameter ? 
If yes, the stretch must be quite intense !
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4x2 its only a warm up lol. The intense stretch comes later!
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Have you ever tried 4 inches in diameter lol? 4 inch diameter dildo might be a little uncomfortable!
Quite interesting, what is the name of the dildo ? I would like to see what it is 
No never, I do not have that level of stretch (yet lol). I can do slightly more than 3 inches max
Is the Gape Keeper 100 your biggest toy /plug ? Just to know how loose is your asshole