Probably what keep us from posting or entering is being judged very early on.
I was a bit reluctant to post at first because I’m pretty much the only virgin here, but I got enough courage to ask and people were really welcoming and comprehensive.
I’m sorry, but I think the definition of “millenials” means people born between 1981 and 1996; I don’t mean to be rude, but if we’re using categories, we should use them in a way we all agree on.
Just based on common usage, I think you’d safely fall into Gen Z (born between 1997 and 2012).
I also think quite a few things have to fall into place for people to end up here.
a) An exploratory sexuality.
b) A strong preference for anal.
c) The desire to discuss it.
d) Googling “anal only” or some variant and finding this place.
and like you said
e) The time to then be active here.
I know people in our age bracket that wouldn’t be found dead discussing what goes on in their bedroom (male and female) and the very opposite. And many right in between as well.
Yeah, I’ve got friends all over the “willing to discuss their bedroom” spectrum too. Like, some I know some of their kinks and fetishes, others, I’m only assuming that they’ve had sex because they’ve been married a number of years, but you wouldn’t know it from how they act!
And I think you’re right about so many things have to fall into place to end up here. Like, this isn’t nichest of niche kinks, but I’m pretty certain the real life social circles I travel in consider this morally wrong. Obviously I don’t, but that’s another discussion altogether.
I think the “west” is moving towards the position that what consenting adults do in the bedroom is up to them and hence anal is becoming more normal. Freedom is a core principle of democracy and so it’s easy to see why it permeates the thinking in every area in the “west”. I would advance that anal acceptance (distinct from anal practice) is greater in the “west” because of this.
This year I’ll be turning 64 and Cate will be turning 56. Tomorrow is our 23rd wedding anniversary, and we are more in love & having sex more than when we first got married
So true. I’m 69 she’s 67. Taking our sexual relationship to the next level 6 years ago has been a wonderful surprise later in life. Congrats to you and Cate. Ironic we share a similar experience. Small world for sure.
I’m 22. Anal focused since 16, theoretically discovered myself as AO since 18, but denying it to me. And accepting myself as Analsexual after 21 when I penetrated a pisser and discovered that it’s awful. Now I’m trying to be a successful and exemplary man so I can get a submissive conservative christian woman that will accept be my AO wife.