I was wondering what people’s type here is, concerning a partner, and if the one you are with is that type or not ?
I myself, struggle with this concept. Cause allthough I like big boobs, I’ve married a women with A cups and started a family with her
I consider my fiancee closest to my type till date. Short, hourglass body, very nice, round ass and big DD boobs. But I am attracted to her stunning smile the most. Her smile makes my world slow down and her eyes connect to my soul.
It’s great having someone in your life who makes you feel like this.
I thought I wanted tall dark and handsome, but I always had a low key crush on Wesley from the Princess Bride and Legolas from the Lord of the Rings movies. And then as a teen I prayed I’d get a nerd who likes hockey.
And I wound up with a tall blond haired blue eyed handsome nerd who used to play and loves hockey.
What I look for most in men is a beautiful, open smile, pretty hands, and a nice, toned butt. I also like tall men, but being a 5-foot-tall girl, all guys are tall to me.
But hey, if there’s our personal theory of beauty, there’s reality. An unconscious alchemy that means we’re not always attracted to the same type of people. And that’s often been the case for me.
Well, my current boyfriend is more in my league. He’s very tall, 6’4" and very strong; he’s a rugby player. And above all, he has a magnificent smile!
Out of curiosity: When you say pretty hands, what do you imagine? Hands that are well taken care of (as in: clean and manicured nails) or a certain shape?
No, I’m not talking about hands that are well taken care of. Certainly cleanliness is important but I would have no problem with hands which cound not look like they came out of a soap commercial because they do manual labor all day long.
No, it’s more a shape that attracts me and also certain characteristics that I don’t like.
In France we talk about the hands of a pianist or surgeon with long, thin fingers. This is what attracts me. I also like big hands.
Conversely, I don’t like hands with big fingers that look like sausages. I also don’t like tiny or bitten nails.
Due to my (still undiagnosed… for now) ADHD, I find myself attracted to all sorts of shapes that I can’t really tell which is my type, but what I do know is that I don’t really like is big breasts or butt… And I like legs.
But whatever my type might be, it’ll always be out of my range anyways as I have nothing to offer. Better stick to the flow and see what life may bring (or it may not, 50/50).
I’d say my type is quite varied physically. Intelligence, humour, compassionate, kindness, open minded, passionate about something, those are the most important things I seek in a relationship. Obviously open to anal as well.
Type is quasi overrated and if you’re looking for a serious relationship, looks matter significantly less to a woman than men seem to think. Being genuinely nice, kind, loving, and considerate will get you much farther. Even with women who are “out of your league”. We want a guy who will treat us like a person and love us. Looks are secondary.
That said, I always thought I liked tall, dark, and handsome with a trim athletic build and long legs. Married average height, blonde hair, blue eyed guy built like a comic book hero - wide shoulders, huge chest, narrow waist (comparitively) and not very long legs. Wouldn’t trade him!
To be honest, well this may sound cheesy and I may sound like a crazy gen-z fangirl since majority of my interests and preferences are very problematic to leftists, including being attracted to men most of the actors from my country (I’m Asian btw, not specifying it due to personal privacy reasons) are known as heartthrobs and well-beloved by a lot of people, mainly fangirls and women alike.
I know a lot of you will call me shallow and that’s ok, but I personally think physical attraction is necessary for a good and healthy relationship, if you put so much effort into looking after yourself, practicing hygiene, having emotional intelligence and shared values, personal boundaries, financial security, etc.
If you’re wondering what my type of men is, men who look intimidating and tough with their buff body, but is very soft, gentle, sweet and kind. If I were lucky enough in another life to encounter a man who fits my type, I would’ve hit the jackpot if I give him my ass to pound.
I’ve been trying to, you know, just being myself for some time. Still, I’m not one of those dudes that are actively looking to get the attention of girls. I’m more passive about it and just let whatever may come. Though, I pretty much seized all attempts to attract anyone tbh, for I’m not (nor will ever be mature enough for these things. How can I love someone if I’m so harsh to myself (…probably, too harsh)?
I never had a type appearance wise, in the past I’ve dated small girls, tall girls, big tits, small tits, big ass, small ass, blonde, ginger, brunette, etc. While all women I had sex with were white, that wasn’t because I don’t find other ethnicities unattractice, but rather because I live ina very white country.
However, I do have preferences for personality: I love women with a good sense of humour and who can laugh about themselves, I love confident women who know what they want, I love intelligence, maturity, etc.
most of the actors from my country (I’m Asian btw, not specifying it due to personal privacy reasons) are known as heartthrobs and well-beloved by a lot of people, mainly fangirls and women alike.