Hello fellow butt lovers. I’m a fan of the old site but thought I’d join here too; my name is “semi-normal” there.
The old site changed my life. I think I heard about it on a Quora discussion thread…
I really did think something was wrong with me, loving my girls butt so much. My girl did too I think, but I regularly take screen shots of some of the discussions to share with her and now after years, she understands how common and normal anal sex is, and not just in the US. Anal is a regular part of our love making and I hope that is always the case, but I don’t see her going AO as she loves attention to her lady parts.
Thank you to everyone on this site and the old one, who open their hearts and share their experiences. It is unbelievably helpful and educational. Perhaps I can add to it as well from time to time.
Hello. I think I speak for most of us if I day we all love(d) the old forum. But fact is that mods were soletimes up against an unimaginable amount of spam with a admin who never replied to messages or helped.
This gets very annoying. This forum is build from the start to make spam impossible. And see, no spam. It is doable.
There have been a massive move the first two weeks and then we got to a deadstop. Until this week, when new people start joining. Would be so nice to gave daily conversations going again, like in the old days. 
I remember you from the old site. Welcome to the new improved site! We consider ourselves “anal only” even though she enjoys oral sex and plays with her clit during anal penetration. I’m probably the most “anal only” in our relationship because I’m no longer interested in vaginal penetration, and I’m sure I’m one of very few men who isn’t really interested in receiving oral sex.
Because of the taboo associated with anal sex, I’m quite certain there are many more “normal” people who enjoy anal sex and play. Glad to hear anal is working out for you and your partner!
Is there a specific reason why you are not into blowjobs ?
If I had to make the choice, using either the asshole or the mouth of my girlfriend for the remainder of my life, I would be in trouble. I can say I preffer her assholenover her mouth. They’re both different and both give
me a lot of pleasure.
There are several reasons I don’t find it nearly as pleasurable as anal penetration. First, I’m thick and I feel her teeth when my cock is in her mouth. Also, prior to our later in life discovery of anal, I always had to find the best position to fully penetrate her pussy. Because I’m thick, she can only take my cock in her mouth so far, so I never feel the depth I can achieve in her ass or pussy.
Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy the occasional ass to mouth or erotic licking with eye contact, but my mind and body crave deep penetration. When we watch porn I can’t stand when a man only partially penetrates the woman’s ass. When I cum in her ass it feels like I have to be as deep in her ass as possible. I guess that’s my fetish. Since I can’t go deep in her throat and always feel her teeth, it doesn’t appeal to me as much as it may to others.
I realize I am likely one of very few men who don’t crave oral sex. I give great oral to her pussy and ass, and love entertaining her ass with plugs and toys, but when it’s my turn for fun, there’s no place I’d rather be than deep in her ass. Thank God her rectum doesn’t have teeth!
Okay, I understand now. For me the deep penetration in her mouth/throat is exactly what’s so appealing. My girlfriend takes me ballsdeep at every blowjob. My cock is notmal thickness.
I had a woman once who did shallow sucking, she took only 1/3rd of my cock in her mouth so I didn’t want her to suck me. It simply didn’t do much for me. Her asshole gave me much more pleasure.
She really tries to give me a good blowjob, but her jaw gets sore after a while. She’ll apologize that she can’t continue, but she also knows I can’t wait to fill her ass with my cock. I have no regrets!
Nice to hear from you guys. Anal is not just “working out” for me and my partner, it has bonded us like nothing else and we are closer than ever. She tolerated my interest in it and accommodated me at the beginning, but over time has learned to really like it.
Also, oral sex is always part of our lovemaking and she has come to really enjoy giving it and can take me very deep and there are no size issues. It’s hard to ask for more.
Anal was something my gf/wife tolerated then grew to love and then she made the Jump to anal only as well. We too feel it has significantly improved our connection, intimacy and bond. Best decision we ever made.
Same experience for us. There is a different level of trust between anal partners than vaginal sex. I’m fortunate to be married to someone who only wants anal.
We took a short fuckation, and after a long day outdoors, and anal the evening before, she didn’t want to clean out so anal was off the table. After a little foreplay, including anal play, she rolled onto her back at the corner of the bed and told me to take her ass. Vaginal sex just doesn’t do it for her anymore.