I’ve been AO for nearly a year now. I love it. My BF loves it. As I posted before my BF acts like I don’t even have a pussy. He just wants my ass. And the more I give him them more he wants it. Sometimes twice a day.
I put a lot of effort into retraining myself. Once we started AO, I made sure to only play with my clit when there was simultaneous anal penetration. And I made sure to avoid vaginal stimulation completely. Right from the start there was lots of extra strong orgasms but initially these were not ‘anal only’, it always required clit too.
Earlier this year I started to experiment with semi clit denial. (I still can’t give up on my clit fully, that is too much to ask. I still touch it sometimes when he is in my ass)
What I mean by semi clit denial is like trying to cum from anal with as little clitoral stimulation as possible. This really worked. I have had several fully anal only orgasms. It is really special when it happens.
I love the idea of retraining myself like this. Rewiring my body. I view it as a type of body modification like piercing or tattooing only more intimate, more important. I love the idea that I’ve unlocked a type of orgasm that most people never experience. I’ve taken the responsibility and initiative to develop myself in this way.
My BF says ATM is the next step. I don’t fancy that, when he mentions it I always tell him that he has an asshole too… that quietens him down. Maybe I will buy a strap-on for his birthday so he can know what it feels like to have another human actively penetrate him. At least once. More seriously tho, I think full clit denial might be the actual next step but I don’t know if I will ever be ready for that. Maybe could do a one month trial.
My wife does ATM and let me tell you, it’s the best sex in existence to me.
But she usually prepairs herself with an simple anal douche first. I love her very much, but as a woman who does ass to mouth sex, she gets the most love possible
I like the idea of you getting (and using on your BF) a strap-on for his birthday.
I don’t know who first said (surely a very long time ago) “what’s good for the goose is good for the gander.” Perhaps your idea is what that person was thinking about?
I sure would on board for such a birthday present, but then I (a straight married man) am an anal freak of the the first order.
Just be gentle with him – it could be the start of a great new chapter in your relationship, but probably not if his experience is painful.
This is an interesting perspective, thanks for sharing. I really enjoy anal, but have sometimes wondered about the denial aspects people enjoy here. As a person with a tattoo and piercings (just ears for now, admittedly), I can see how the idea of body modification would be attractive. I’ll have to think about this more.
Guys have always gone for the booty with me. I have a huge fat ass. I don’t even want it in the pussy anymore. It’s been a long time since I’ve had it there.
