The asshole is often times judged as a dirty and vile part of the body, and there’s the ones who will make jokes about it. But for me, a girls ass and asshole is worth to be romanticized. Come on, at least for some of us, it’s her most desirable love organ. Sometimes we see men and women romanticize vaginas, but I think the ass should be worth of respect as well. Like, it’s a sacred organ, something spiritual or even religious maybe. But I realize it’s such a taboo topic. No worship of ass, I don’t mean that, just acknowledge it’s sacredness.
Well I think that is why waxing and bleaching has become popular. To pretty them up, so to speak. I like the smooth waxed look. I think a bit of colour looks lovely myself, like an areola around a breast. One of my fantasies is to conduct a prettiest arsehole contest.
Ever since I’ve had the uppertunity to really look at my girlfriends asshole, somewhere in the nineties, it hit me how pretty it looked. Her nice little star.
I have been romantisizing it eversince. To me a woman’s asshole has always had so much appeal, more then her pussy. Don’t take me wrong. I also enjoy a pretty pussy. But if my view allows me to see both, my eyes will glare upon her pretty little star every time.
That sounds more like ass worship fetish. It’s not the message I was trying to convey.
Acknowledge we all have souls and throught vaginal or anal sex you’re going to make a soul bond with that person. But for some of us, the spiritual bond is much stronger if it’s anal. So it needs to be respected.
A few days ago my girlfriend told me why she’s so happy to be anal only. She told me something similar to what you discribe. That through anal sex, she feels connected to me in a way she never deemed possible. Her pussy never gave her that feeling, hence there’s totally no reason ever to fuck her pussy again.
To your point, anal is a much more spiritual experience because of the trust and care associated with the act.
I also admit being fascinated by her amazing sphincter muscle. The way it responds to teasing and rubbing is fascinating and erotic to observe.
There’s just so much that makes anal the only way we complete every lovemaking session. Like an apple, anal every day makes the doctor go away.
Yes, it’s something that goes much beyond the physical act, it’s deeply spiritual.
Sure thing it also has health benefits. It’s mind opening when we recognize the human being in all its wholeness and not just the physical aspect. Something the secular mentality fails miserably to do.
In my country there is a prettiest pussy contest. So…
The butthole is more expressive than the pussy. It’s a fact, it opens in different stages, it “kisses” in different ways, the human brain recognized human things, and for my brain, a great feminine asshole looks like the woman preetiest eye
Yes but the spirituality of it is lost on women who are pussy obsessed. Like my two exes. They wanted their pussies to be worshipped.
So anal with them never lifted us up to a higher level of being. To be honest, before I met my anal only girlfriend, I wasn’t even aware this was possible. I also was very certain no woman would ever give up pussy fucks to exclusively switch to assfucks. I’m glad I was wrong.
I think everything on a female’s (from my male’s perspective at least) body is sexy and appealing.
When I was young and I don’t know what age I saw my first bit of porn in a magazine (internet wasn’t invented then) I saw this woman spreadeagled. It blew my mind out lol… I saw her pussy and asshole. Idk what it is, but I was drawn to her asshole. I was fascinated with it. To me at least, is sexy. I was hooked romanticising a woman’s asshole from then on. From that time on whenever I would look at porn, I would look at her asshole above all else.
I look at a male’s s asshole and it is blah. It does nothing for me. But a woman’s asshole, it is something else! It is a thing of beauty. I love smelling, rimming, sticking my finger (that is sublime imho every time I do that) in there, and of course fucking Cate’s ass.
Only those of us who know, know how it is so deeply spiritual and touching.