As some of you have read, due to our business and self enployment, our sexlife isn’t as alive as we want it to be.
So I’ve thought of a way to add some spice.
My wife always goes upstairs a few hours before me, to do the household work. I’ve asked her to end her evening routine with plugging herself so I know for a fact she’s ready to be anally taken every day, without exception. She loves this idea.
Then I’ve added some code language:
The pink plug is the default plug and means her asshole is ready for use.
Any other then the pink, like the black or the metal one, means she’s ass to mouth ready with a rinced rectum
This way I know she’s plugged, but the color of the plug explains how far I can take the fun.
Yesterday she wore a metal plug, so I had some amazing ass to mouth action and a huge blowout in her rectum.
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I am sorry that “real life” is interfering with the important stuff.
Having been self-employed my entire life and for many decades my significant others also being involved in the business, I understand how the pressures of work-life can mess up the sex-life.
I wish you the best as you work through the work-life problems. All I can say, from personal experience, is try not to let work mess up life – but I know it can be very difficult.
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We’re trying to find a way to seamlessly combine the two. Like this is the first time in my life I can grope my co worker whenever I feel like it. She lives braless so her big boobs are always nice to feel up. And her thonged ass is another grope-friendly bodypart that gives me joy.
The hardest part is not to get too involved in stupid work related arguements.
This is such a fun idea. And I love that the default plug is pink, that’s super cute.
I’m in a distance relationship right now and with classes going it’s put a serious damper on my sex life. Good for you for being creative. I feel like it can be way too easy to forget to keep working to connect with your partner when life gets in the way.
It is not my place to give you life advice, but something you said is very close and personal to my experience. (I have spent nearly 50 years working with my significant others, with me being the business owner.) I hope not to “step on your toes”.
I know all too much about those “stupid work related arguments” that you mention. I have been there, done that, and I was stupid. Of course I don’t know anything about you or your business or your work situation. However, in my personal experience – again your situation may be completely different than mine was – I was a “slow learner” it took me about 15 years (but I started in business VERY young) to learn to not sweat the small stuff. To learn that other people often do have good ideas even they have come up with something different and/or they may not know all the important details. There was no magic solution for me – I just had to learn the hard way that not only was I NOT always right about everything (even if it was my company), but that sometimes the other person had some better ideas than I had. It took me a long time to set aside my ego and my need to control every little thing. That it took me so long to learn that stuff is one of the (many) greatest regrets of my life. I was often getting in my own way and hindering my own success.
Bringing that kind of work conflict into a relationship is extremely toxic.
It takes a brave couple to work together. Some people can do it successfully and some cannot. Be sure that the two of you understand yourselves, and each other, well enough to know if working together is a good idea. (Also, working together creates more financial risk for the family if a business runs into financial difficulties.)
A couple things that helped us a little bit during my learning process were: a) If I observed something the other person was doing that I had a problem about, just letting it happen for the moment was very important – and never to discuss it in front of other people. 99% of the time, whatever wrong thing is happening is not going to end the world in the next 24 hours. b) Then schedule an actual meeting (soon, but usually not on the same day) with the person to talk about the subject – and to be open-minded. That way it gave us both time to think about things and to come up with ideas and to be more diplomatic in our communication. If I was talking I was doing damage – listening made things better. c) Keep reminding myself that unless something is on fire, that very little is important enough to start a confrontation. and d) …
… Always remember “If mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy”.
You two are brave to work together. It seems that things work so well for you two “at home” that I have confidence that you will have success working together as well. However, working together always takes more effort and concern about the other person than most people realize – most people could not even imagine trying to do what you folks are doing and what I have done and what I continue to do (working with my spouse).
Wishing you the best !!!
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We’re in a business that she’s in all her life, but I only started sept 2023. We argue about the things we see differently.
TBH we are getting somewhere and communicating about how to do better as a couple, while not sacrifising too much of our true selves.
The plug idea works so well that till now she never wore the pink plug. So ass to mouth every time for us.
The beauty of this idea is the pure anticipation for me.
She goes upstairs around 21:00, I keep the business open till 23:00. While I’m closing shop and getting everything ready for the night, I can’t help but wonder which plug she has in. So the moment I go upstairs I check her plug to find it’s never the pink one and she’s prepaired for ass to mouth. That gets me going so good. I adore her for making this idea work so well. Our sexlife is climbing again.
Fabulous! May your sexlife climb ever higher!
The plug idea does it’s work.
The other day I got upstairs pretty beat. Not much energy left. We were lying on the bed, watching some stupid home reno show on TV. After almost an hour I suddenly realized she was plugged. I just didn’t know if it was the pink or another one. That got me hard in minutes, so I circeled the bed and turned her ass toward me, to find the metal plug in her sweet asshole
Pulled it out and shoved in my cock. The devine feeling if her asshole around my cock is always a guarantee for an amazing fucksession. After enough anal joy I layed myself down on my side of the bed again, and without even saying anything my wife took my cock deeptroat for the second part of the pure bliss.
I love ass to mouth. It’s like the purest way to have sex.
Yesterday night my wife not only plugged herself with the metal plug, to let me know ATM was on the table, but on top of that she wore the top you see on my profile pic 
There something very sexy about assfucking your wife, while hearing her moan, looking at her horny face and see the “I 
anal” message all over her perfect tits.
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