Personally, I always appreciated a girl who can just come out and say what they want. But I feel like I’m the minority with that. Most people seem like they want to play the “game”. Where you don’t say what you want directly but rather hint at things and see if the other person can figure it out. I never got it. I just say what I want and I appreciate the same from others.
This kind of woman makes me very very horny…. It’s great, but I’d like her to have hobbies as well, be inteligent, kind, feminine, well informed etc. Is it asking too much?
I don’t think of myself as a “coy” girl who plays games. But coming right out and saying what you want is scary. It’s an act of courage making yourself vulnerable by saying what you really want, and risking being ridiculed or mocked. That’s what I really appreciate about my current partner, the way he creates space for me to be comfortable and vulnerable with him. I think it’s no surprise he’s the first I’ve been able to share my anal desires with.
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I understand where you’re coming from and especially in a society even when people open their mind about the discover of anal, of course there will be people who are still judgmental and make misconceptions about anal sex and the stigma is still there unfortunately. I’d find like-minded women who are experienced in anal and are passionate about anal, since a lot of anal-only forums are dominated by men, which is a struggle for me due to receiving unsoliticited messages from men.
It’s ok if you’re shy and meek about what you really want, and you’re not weak. I’m not the type of person who plays games, what I’m saying is that I’m very straightforward, bold and honest and being honest and unfiltered about my passion for anal, even if I’m gonna get some judgmental looks from your peers, is very important and having civil discussions about anal with like-minded people without any judgements, is also essential in the 21st century. I personally think a lot of anal-centered forums should highlight anal enthusiast women’s voices since our pleasure tends to be overlooked and overshadowed by a lot of men. I love anal because I discover it and it’s pleasurable, pleasant, risk-free, promotes more intimacy and natural arousal for anal only women like me, not because I’m doing it for my potential man.
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You are the prime example why the mods decided to take away personal message possibilities. Not many women are as outspoken about is as you are, but I think (and other mods too) that most women will simply stop logging in if men start messaging them.
I also want to praise you, because two times you made clear you’re not here to hook up and you’re not happy with remark towards that path.
The goal is to make this forum a place where everyone feels safe talking anout their love for anal sex. Period.
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What some men don’t understand is the satisfaction they could receive by pleasing and pleasuring their partner. Pleasing her satisfies my selfish desire to know I can make her cum, and hard. I never experienced this during 37 years of PIV.
I’ve written about this many times but the bigger her anal orgasm, the more powerful my orgasm will be. Both of us try to make every anal session the best experience for each other. I thought that was the definition of a healthy relationship but I guess some men are just looking for a hole to pound. It’s so much better if she enjoys the experience.
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Sorry for causing some trouble 
this has to be said because this happens quite a lot 
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I mean, anal only is very spectacular, unique, more intimate and pleasant, and very sensual. Tighter assholes are even more better with decent amount of lubes and when I prep and train my asshole. Nothing can top anal ever 
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It took her a while to appreciate it, but that just made her relish it even more. Great discovery later in life. Many awesome sessions to look forward to. Old folk like sex too!
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Sounds pretty much perfect to me. Women taking the initiative turns me on a lot and asking for anal even more.
While I am quite dominant, hearing what a woman wants me to do to her is super hot.
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