We’ve been happily anal only for over 3 years now. For both of us it is the absolute best way to live together.
I formulated my feelings about anal to her last night. It makes me feel empowered and priviledged at the same time. I always appreciate this amazing gift she gives me, and meanwhile feel powerfull for having the uppertunity to use her asshole whenever I feel like it.
To us this comes down to true love
For me it’s a jumble of positive feelings. The word “release” comes to mind. I just get this deep sense of release, like I can finally just relax and surrender to the physical feeling. I can feel every last inch of him, which is a lovely. I also get this feeling of control and I think it’s because I can feel him so well and if we’re having anal sex, I’m 100% in that headspace. I think because of my past abuse and the ever present risk of pregnancy, anything involving vaginal is complicated and it’s still more of a struggle to stay in an aroused, sexual frame of mind when my first instinct is to dissociate (and then I have to actively and intentionally focus and pay attention to what’s going on) and then my second instinct is to make super sure we don’t get carried away and I don’t end up pregnant. I don’t have any of that with anal. It’s just pure pleasure, sensuality, and arousal. No strings attached. And I feel so much more cared for and attended during and afterwards too. 
It’s kind of my happy place. 
I really get it why a woman, who got abused, can get detached from her vagina and choose anal sex as their main sexual joy. It the sexual entrance you emotionally chose to give to that man.
Exactly. It’s the one I chose to do things with and the one I have control over.
For us it’s all about the intimacy and intensity of our orgasms… her anal orgasms and my powerful orgasms knowing I made her cum. She never experienced orgasm during decades of vaginal penetration so it was an incredible discovery when she realized she could orgasm anally. It was a life changing discovery. Like you, we also enjoy the cuddling and affection post sec as well.
It’s been a life changing discovery for us as well. She regrets not being open to it earlier in our relationship but I love the fact we discovered it later in life. No regrets.
This may be useful for me and others to formulate that in our heads and at least get an idea.
It’s easy to say that you like something without actually trying, so I can just limit myself to imagination.
The imagination is a powerful substitute. I wouldn’t trade it for the real thing, but imagination certainly helped get me by until Mrs Colt discovered she loves anal as much as I do.
I know you no longer watch porn but if or when you do, amateur anal porn is the closest representation of the real thing.
Your participation in this group will help you prepare for when the opportunity to experience anal with a woman presents itself. I hope that happens for you.
Anal is like nothing else. The intimacy, the sensations, the thrills and the pleasure for everyone. Its a win win. The intense feeling of being stuffed is so satisfying. Yes I enjoy pushing myself to the limits at times but also the connection I get with my boyfriend plus he enjoys it so much. Bonus
Anal only is heavenly, healing, soothing, intimate, intense and passionate at the same time! I’m proud to be an anal only slut~ 
I call myself the anal evangelist. I’m passionate about describing the joys my wife and I experience every time we have sex. For her, it’s all about the orgasms and watching me cum. For me, it’s all about pleasuring her ass so I can watch her cum. If we’re lucky, I’ll last long enough for her to have a second anal orgasm. Who doesn’t love anal?
I’m a pretty shallow guy. It’s all about the physical pleasure for me. One thing that turns me on a lot is seeing my partner be very turned on. So for me going anal only (which for us means no vaginal contact at all) allows my wife to get and stay horny so she can be into whatever we are doing. I love that her pussy gets soaking wet from having her ass used. And for the few times I let her orgasm, she explodes since it’s been so long. I’m just very fortunate to have someone who enjoys being on the receiving end of that.
But honestly, I never had much trouble getting girls I was with to do wanted. I had AO relationships in the past as well. I was always the kind of guy who had a lot of trouble getting a girl to actually like me, but once I did I had no trouble getting them to do whatever I wanted.
A woman in another social media group accused me of being sexist for stating that men can help women discover the pleasures of anal. She said it’s coercion and borders on rape.
Anyone who knows me here understands how committed I am to make sex pleasurable for my wife. I helped her achieve orgasm during penetration. According to this loon, it must be the woman who suggests and asks for specific sexual activities. She claims to be married. God help her husband. Maybe she’s a dominatrix.
As you suggest, I love pleasing my wife because it turns me on knowing she’s turned on.
Tbh @Colt1911 I’m so happy my wife is old fashion. She wants a man that leads her. She want to feelsafe with me, so she can be naturally submissive to me, especially concerning everything sexual.
If I want a blowjob, I take out my cock and say “hey baby, suck my cock” and she smiles from ear to ear, looks me straight in my eyes and takes it in her mouth. Never any fuzz, never acting up, always glad to please me.
I would not last a week with that kind of woman you’re encountered.
My wife enjoys being pleasured. She enjoys me deciding how that’s done and I do my best to please her during foreplay with toys in her ass and lots of licking all over.
Penetration starts slowly and deliberately. Once I’ve fully penetrated her ass, I stroke slowly and deeply. She enjoys when I pull out and reinsert. The slow deliberate penetration always results in her first anal orgasm.
After her orgasm, I continue the slow and deep penetration until I feel her ass open up. She’s fully relaxed and the tension on my cock releases. When she’s open for business, it’s my turn and I own her ass. Fast, hard and deep. Half the time she has a second anal orgasm but I’m on the glide path to cum deep in her ass.
The idiot I interacted with doesn’t believe a man should help a woman discover new pleasure unless she initiates it. It works both ways and my wife is so happy I introduced her to anal pleasure 7 years ago.
I think she doesn’t like anal sex, or she imagined a man forcing her to do it just to show her it can be pleasurable. In that case, her answer would make sense.
Yeah, I must confess, my wife drives me crazy when she spreads her lovely tempting ass and commands: “Shove in! I’m not asking, I’m ordering!”
I’m not losing sleep over some loon making ignorant comments in social media.
I believe we’ve seen some in this group join and then ask how they can find women who love anal.
My standard answer is “create your anal queen” and many agree with my advice. It’s happened for me and I’m certain it’s happened to others, including in this group.
She claimed she loves anal. I noticed she deleted her posts after I challenged her ignorant remarks.
You can include me in this group. I created my anal queen, just as she created her anal king.
Just a curious question, how do you feel about anal only women and anal-obsessed women (who are not anal only) that are very bold, straightforward and take initiative (in an submissive and affectionate manner) of wanting to get their ass pounded and stretched? I’m one of those women who does not shy away and not afraid to be honest and air out my unfiltered thoughts and feelings, including when it comes to being an anal only woman
How do I feel about it ? I think it’s the most impowering thing a woman can do.
If my wife uses the word fucking, I know she always means in her asshole. There’s no doubt about that.
Still I love to hear her say “shove it up my ass”, “take my ass” of “assfuck me” Hearing her explicite say it’s about her asshole, triggers me instantly.