Does anyone here take pictures of their asshole? I’m wondering about before and after type pictures?
I let my bf take a close up ages ago so I sort of have a before pic. I squatted over a mirror a few times recently and it definitely looks different - more used I suppose. Right after sex it looks really sort of angry and all messed up. I was a bit shocked by this at first, still am. I asked myself if I really wanted this.
I put it to my bf that he had better respect and value that I was letting him modify my body. Every time I let him fuck my asshole it changes it a bit and there is nothing I can do to unfuck it.
The same actually goes for the mental and emotional side of things, but today I am thinking a lot about my actual asshole. Are there ways to keep it nice? How do use it without getting it too used up?
You’re not using your asshole up when having anal, nor are you irrevocably altering it if you pay attention to your body.
Consider these two facts:
One: The asshole is used daily to excrete faeces. Have you ever worried about that changing it? Probably not. It’s a painless process if everything is in working order. You learn to relax so it doesn’t hurt when something moves through.
Two: The asshole is a muscle. People all over the world stretch their muscles daily, going for more and more of a stretch, slowly and carefully. It’s called Yoga. Ever heard of warnings how yoga irrevocably destroys your muscles by stretching them out and ruining them?
Now, that being said, there are a few caveats. Don’t use poppers or any numbing agents. The latter especially are dangerous, as you won’t feel a possibly dangerous stretch, which could lead to actual damage (just like yoga is dangerous if you want too much too quickly).
Use lube, go slow and stop if there’s any pain. You need to learn how to relax into it.
Last but not least, communicate and tale responsibility. If you do anal for you bf’s sake, it will eventually drive a wedge between the two of you and poison your relationship. Either you want anal or you don’t. And if you do want it, it’s as much your responsibility as it is his to make sure what you do is healthy and enjoyable for all.
After 14 months of assfucking her daily, I took a pic of my girlfriends asshole and it looked perfect, even virgin like.
It still does and I assfuck her a lot.
These’s one major mistake you make, and that’s inspecting your asshole while squating. It will always open when squating. Let your boyfriend make a pic in doggy, before he assfucks you. That will show you the true image of how you asshole looks now.