Today I did something I never thought I would do. In jest, I said to Dale “I want to fuck your ass for a change”! Thinking I would get an answer such as “are you kidding”? or “fuck right off”!!! Instead Dale said “yeah, ok”. Taken aback I didn’t know what to say. He knew where the lube was but asked me where the strap-on was. I could feel myself becoming a bit anxious. I got the lube and strap-on. Jokingly I asked would he not prefer Cory’s monster! That was met with an unequivocal “NO”. Wimp!! I asked about 10 times if he was sure. He affirmed his decision. Dale made sure he was spotless and started putting lube up his ass. He was either keen or testing me! I began to slowly insert the fake phallus. I was trying to be gentle but he told me to go for it! I was fucking him doggy style and I could feel him back into me. This really threw me but later reflected as to why I was surprised he appeared to be enjoying it. Eventually I stopped and he grinned at me saying you’re not the only one who can do it"! He went on to talk about wanting to show me that he did not want to do anything to me that he was not willing to have done to himself. He said he probably wouldn’t be able to take 2 cocks however enjoyed his prostate being stimulated. He also said he was unsure if he like cum in his mouth. All the more for me then!! I was impressed that Dale gave this a go. He stressed that this was merely a gesture and did not desire having his asked fucked by a bloke! This was an interesting experience but I am demanding a service later this evening!
Other than a finger and gentle prostate massage, I find it is so much better to give than to receive. Not a bad outlook on life either.
A very altruistic point of view!
I can understand your bf’s curiosity and desire; I wonder, though, if he really just wants to show you he’s willing to go through what you go through as well. Just because, well, it doesn’t sound like you ever suffered from anal with him.
Most of the anal toys I own are for my personal use. I can highly recommend some solo play at least for the other guys.
I kind of feel the same he feels: I like the idea of anal. If I want to insert my penis in a girls anus, then it would be fair to experience the same, just to be equal.
Would you say it’s “fair” or would you say it’s “tempting” to experience the same? 
Years before Mrs Colt discovered her love for anal, I experimented with a dildo approximating the girth of my cock to better understand what it would feel like for her.
It helped me appreciate the fact anal penetration may not be for everyone as I experienced discomfort during this period of experimentation. I was disappointed believing I’d never be able to penetrate her ass with the exception of fingers and small toys, which she really enjoyed.
This was a worthwhile experiment as it helped me better understand how it might feel for her. Fortunately, hormone therapy sparked a fire in her ass and the rest, as they say, is history.
While I do enjoy her occasionally inserting a finger in my ass and gently massaging my prostate, I don’t enjoy anything larger. I’m happiest GIVING anal penetration. It’s the best way now for both of us to experience the pleasure of anal penetration.
Hmm, and why not both? You never know if you like it until you taste it.
My theory is that, maybe, what some guys mean when they say “it’s only fair if I try it as well”, what they mean is “I’m curious if it won’t feel good.”
So it seems to me we are actually in agreement.
I must say, though, “fair” seems a strange word in this context. It’s not like it’s a bad thing to receive anal which needs compensation …
I think you have it there. He said that he wanted to get an idea of what I Iove so much about anal sex. He can use my toys anytime he likes!!
He didn’t want to risk to look sexist to his AO goddess… I in his place would have done the same 
Dale is the least sexist person I know. He had never done anal before he met me and it was me that asked him to fuck my ass! Most of the time I still initiate sex but I love when he takes charge and puts his cock where I like it most, well apart from my mouth!
I think you should understand his gesture as a sign of gratitude from his part… Because every woman can give the pussy… but the ass… the ass is so precious.
I acknowledge his gesture and his curiosity. It was fun plus I got a bit of insight from his POV. Its may not be a regular occurrence but it was interesting