OK. It’s been on my mind to post an update. Finally got a few minutes. So, its been a few months with no normal sex. My BF is totally on board. He basically acts like I don’t even have a pussy, he doesn’t touch it, doesn’t look at it, doesn’t ask me about it. I think no way no how is he ever planning to penetrate it again.
I read everything you guys wrote about clit denial but I think I’m not ready for that. I have been trying to rewire my brain and retrain my body to connect my clit to my ass. We have been working on stimulating my clit and ass at the same time to retrain my body to get more pleasure from A. My BF is really good with his tongue so most nights he starts by licking my asshole. I can’t believe I never did that before, it is amazing. How good that feels gives me confidence to keep going with retraining my neurology. After licking for a few minutes he moves on to fingering my ass and licking my clit. Its easy for me to cum with his tongue on my clit. So far I’ve mostly cum when he was licking me, we’ve tried to time it so he has 2 fingers or a toy in my ass and I’m feeling a nice stretch as I cum to get the maximum retraining. Its a shame that he can’t lick my clit and fuck my A at the same time, maybe we need to do a threeway to get that.
I would LOVE to cum from anal sex without clit stimulation, do you think its possible? Any advice to speed up my retraining and rewiring?
We bought a dildo the same circumvence as my cock, but it’s 2 cms longer. I use that dildo to assfuck my wife, while I lick her clit. It works great cause se feels the same fill as with my cock.
Two times she accieved 100% anal orgasms, without any other stimuli. But the second time it was so strong that she’s convinced it made a vain in her eyebol pop, giving her a red eye for over a week. I think the red eye was just an unfortunate coïncidence. But she is now scared to go for full anal orgasms and preffers the well known bliss of clitoral orgasms, combined with my cock or the dildo in her asshole
“Its a shame that he can’t lick my clit and fuck my A at the same time…”
That truly is very unfortunate. The more I think about it, the more obsessed I am with the idea.
If you figure out how he can accomplish it, not only share it with us, but you should be able to find a way to monetize it – and make bizillions of dollars – to train the men of the world in this new skill.
Maybe if extraterrestrials ever visit Earth, they will be able to share that skill with us.
Until then, I think you are correct that a threesome (or more-some) may be the only answer.
A throuple-based relationship might be the answer. If I recall correctly, one member of this forum may have mentioned having such at some point in time. I know of a very distant family member who has had (and still has) such for quite a few years, but I have never had the ‘stones’ to ask for details.