In my previous marriages it was different every time.
First wife: I loved her body, I had trouble with her mind. She could be exhausting to deal with. Overly controlling and a huge need of organisation to the point of sceduled fucks. Those days I didn’t feel that my h sexual attraction to her. Could go weeks without sex, but I masturbated as much as I could manage, as compensation.
Second wife: felth huge sexual attraction to her, once we started having sex, and it skyrocketed when she trew anal sex in. I thought I found the holy grail. At first she was easy to be with, had a good body too. But after moving in together, she became a different woman in a negative way. My sexual attraction decreased fast. The last straw was when she claimed I forced too mych anal sex on her.
Third (to be) wife: I wanted to fuck her even before we had a relationship. Fantasized about her once when masturbating and in the fantasy I asked her if I could assfuck her, to which she replied ”I love to be assfucked, you can do it as much as you like” Weird that that were almost the exact words she told me when we had our first anal session.
Meanwhile she became the woman I feel the most sexual attraction ever for. I love her body, she’s super sexy, huge tits and perfect, full, heartshaped ass. She looks breathtaking in tight dresses and thong swimwear. The sexual need I have, since I am with her, is through the roof. 3 days without fucking her is the most I can handle. Her asshole and her mouth are pure heaven and her soul is the kindest I ever met. Having such a woman to be anal only with, feels like I got rewarded for my past. For being the good guy, being true and honest. I don’t believe in any god, but I do believe faith brought me on her path, cause without moving in with wife 2, I would never have met this amazing woman.