Love from the Netherlands

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Hi all!

I’ve been a lurker on the old forum for quite some time and decided to finally create an account too :relieved:

Let me tell something about myself. I’m a 32yo guy from the Netherlands. I’ve always been interested in anything anal related - it started with experimentation at a young age with myself, and later on I’ve been blessed by meeting women who also were into anal. Fun times ensued! Unfortunately I haven’t been able to experience an anal-only relationship yet, but I have been lucky enough to have had relationships with frequent (weekly) anal sex.

I absolutely love the intimacy of anal sex. There is nothing like it. It gives an all-encompassing feeling of being connected. The fact that you really ‘give yourself to another’ is a huge turn-on for me. I could not do it if the other person didn’t like it, but if the other does, that adds so much to the experience :two_hearts:

About a month ago me and my gf broke up. We both had some incompatibilities we considered big enough to not continue. She not being into anal at all was a big thing for me. I hope I’m not a dick for saying that, but of all people you must know how this feels.

Anyway, I’m glad to be here. Take care and I’m looking forward to sharing experiences with like-minded people :smile:

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As someone who had always been dreaming about having anal sex with the girl/woman I was with, I see an different side of this.

The women in my past also did anal, be it very rarely, like once a month with my first wife. I knew, and told her often, that her joy couldn’t increase unless we had more anal sex. But she refused. Her butt, her word :man_shrugging:t2:

Second woman suggested anal herself as “would you want to use the other hole ?” I sure did and with her is was once or twice a week. So I though “this is it, I found her”. I even married her. She was bad, very toxic and used everything against me at some point. Including claiming I was simply gay and not out of the closet. Needless to say, we divorced.

At age 50, at the point in my life I kind of gave up on finding a woman who wanted ánd liked anal, I met my current girlfriend. She admitted soon in the relationship she liked anal sex. But this time I held off for months, because there was some fear she didn’t mean it like I wanted it and it was best not to go there…

After months we finally had our first anal sex and it was the best ever in any way. She moaned out of pure joy, she had a big smile on her face and was totally blown away when I had a massive orgasm in her asshole. The words “why didn’t we do this sooner ?” Were the cherry on the pie.

Since then not only did anal become more frequent then pussy sex, but about half a year later I found the old forum, told her “anal only” is a thing and she said “let’s try that. Let us only have anal sex from now on” and we did eversince. 22 of december we are at our 3rd year. She absolutely loves it, never ever talks about pussy sex. If I accidently get my cock near her pussy, she says “no, wrong hole” and pulls back to be sure I don’t accidently shove it in her pussy.

I asked her to marry me. I want to be anal only with her till we die. Or, in our case, ass to mouth only. :heart:

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Wow, that is a very inspiring. I’m happy for you both and how things worked out, it sounds amazing. Wishing you lots of love!

My experiences with anal vary too from the girl offering to me asking. Some are more into it than others. Others can get into it given some time and some not at all (which of course is fine, boundaries etc.). In any case, I feel like it’s worth pursuing finding that special person that is as much into it as yourself.

My first non-solo experience actually was with a girl offering her butt. I didn’t expect that at all, nor had I collected enough of my guts to ask myself at that point. Of all of my relationships, I think she would’ve been up to try anal-only. We did a lot of anal play over a long time and even got to a point she told me not to bother with lube, although I did not find that pleasurable myself at all. The best thing was having simultaneous orgasms during anal sex, for which we practiced timing with the help of some background music. Brilliant!

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Trouwens, ik ben van Vlaanderen.

I feel that the waiting for it only made it sweeter when I got it and especially the emotional connection with my girlfriend. Anal only provides something which other means of sex don’t. And to me personally, ass to mouth emphasizes it ever more.

I asked her to marry me, though I swore I would noy marry for a third time. But she is the one till the end for me.

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