Life just happens. Sometimes a divorce is the first step to a better life. It was in my case. I would never have experienced the anal only life with my first wife.
Sorry to hear about the divorce, I imagine that’s not easy even when it is for the best.
Is he currently your student? I think my school has a waiver you need to sign publicly declaring your love if you are in a relationship with a student.
I am glad you are back. I very much noticed your absence because I missed your stories of your experiences, especially including the more “unusual” experiences.
Your stories gave me “fantasy hope” of what might be possible – though I well know that for my wife any such “unusual” activities will always have to remain my fantasy (and she definitely does not have such fantasies).