Hello!
New user here. Excited to read and follow along. Just got out of a relationship of about 8 months. We had become almost completely anal only in the bedroom the last 4 or 5 months.
I want to get back into dating but I feel this lifestyle is a MUST for me. So I’m looking to learn along the way and hopefully find my partner one day!
Welcome to the group!
Perhaps you could share a little bit more about yourself so we can get to know who you are, not just your dating status and what you hope to find.
Also, I have to remind you that, as you know since you’ve read the rules thoroughly, that this is not a dating site and we’d ask you not to try and find a partner here.
That being out the way, welcome again! Feel free to Share your adventures, ask for Advice, tell us about your favourite tv show from the 60s in Off Topic … you get the idea. Have fun!
I wonder what made you guys break up. Cause I am having this survey if anal only couples are more likely to stay together of not. 
And welcome here.
I think timing and location. I had been recently divorced (little over a year before meeting her). When we met I was in a phase of screw relationships but ended up falling for her. Once things got more and more serious I guess my past traumas started creeping up. Plus she traveled for work half the week. A lot of factors came into play and I stubbornly broke it off. Few weeks later got into contact with her, we talked a lot over a 2 week period, met for dinner etc, and then she eventually said she wasn’t ready and that I could keep talking to her but only if it was about us getting back together or a future. So I went no contact bc I can’t talk to this woman as friends. Man do I have regrets. She is the one that I let get away.
I apologize if it came off that I am only here to find a partner. I have been following these forums for well over a year and finally decided to join. I joined to be able to chat with like minded folks, learn from the many discussions here, but was also curious how others met. I’ve seen those topics before.
More about me… I’m 35 years old male, live in Ohio, I have a successful career and 3 boys that are awesome. Wanna know anything more pls ask!
Welcome to the group. You’ll find your anal queen sometime.
Sorry about Joe Burrow. At least he doesn’t play for my beloved, miserable Bears. We can ruin the best of quarterbacks.
No need to apologize. I may be getting paranoid, but “little info about the person + looking for a partner” has been a bad sign in the bast.
Sorry for the confusion!
I’ll find her one day, all about manifesting!
And poor Joe! The Cincinnati ownership and front office is the worst in the league!
Wait a minute! Did I miss something? She said “but only if it was” or “only if it wasn’t”? Assuming the former (and possibly the latter too), that simply translates to “I am not ready now.” So you can still see her, you can still talk to her, and probably still fuck her but you just need to slow down. Let her catch up to you.
You might also want to spend some time reflecting on whether you are ready for a serious relationship too and work out why your marriage ended and how not to repeat that. Rushing in is to be resisted.
BTW, welcome too!
Hey welcome to our forum. I’m Abbi from the UK. I joined the old forum because I was curious about the benefits of anal pleasure. My boyfriend was an anal virgin and my previous experience with an ex-boyfriend was not pleasant. I learned so much from talking with people and reading posts. It was more, having the confidence to try things that opened my eyes as well as my ass!! Seriously though, this is a great forum for helping to find your own tricks!
Welcome fellow Buckeye! It seems that Ohio is once again taking over.