Idk if this is a me thing or just basically me daydreaming 
, but I watch some movies, tv shows, cartoons, anime and video games walkthrough during my free time, and when the heated tension scene comes on, I couldn’t help but imagine myself as the female character, except the only difference is that I wanna get my asshole plowed only, anal only. I love getting my asshole used by “him” only as if I’m his anal only fucktoy. Are there any woman who shares similar feelings as I am? 
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I guess this post confuses a lot of people, so my bad for not adding more depths and thoughts. 
Idk if any anal-obsessed woman related to me when it comes to my passion for anything anal, but I always get turned off or sex-repulsed by anything related to pussy sex. Idk what words to describe, but I always feel an weird pain in my chest whenever anything pussy sex-related topics or media is brought up, and my brain does not even like it at all. It’s hard for me to relate to a lot of women because a lot of mainstream media always make references to the birthmaking area. My brain and my body only gets turn on by anal. Anal is the only thing that makes me sexually aroused and increases my libido.
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This topic is very specific and aimed towards women. So it’s not easy to reply to.
My wife told me that in her previous marriage, she often fantasized that some random man was fucking her asshole while her then husband was assfucking her. This because she was repulsed by him and needed that fantasy to orgasm. It could even be just some man who broke in to rape her asshole.
My first ex wife told me about fantasizing some man started to fuck her while she was sucking my cock. The idea of pleasing two cocks appealed to her. She was 100% vaginal oriented though double pentration, with two men, appealed to her too.
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So I have some thoughts I need to gather. Since I read that a lot of women who enjoy anal sex orgasm and cum hard from anal, why don’t they go anal only and ignore their birthmaking area? 
Going back to birthmaking sex is disappointing and leads to unwanted pregnancies. I repeated this many times like a broken record and I’m not trying to sound boisterous by shoving things up people’s faces, and I know not everyone is built for anal and that’s okay, the asshole is a pleasure hole while the birthmaking area is meant for having children.
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My wife loves anal but state openly she has a mental battle about it. She only allowed it last year to be fair. She was very anti anal. Irony for me every girl I have dated before meeting my wife was open anal lovers so that itch was always scratched for me. So for 13 of the 15 years we have been together I got no anal. She likes to play with girls with me and normally the girl we meet loves me fucking her ass and my wife loves watching me gape girls asses but never allowed me there herself. But last year 1 girl we started seeing started to ask her why not. Telling her how amazing it feels etc. she eventually came around and told me she wants to try it. What has been very clear from the first time is she likes it. She had an intense orgasm from just half of my dick going in. Then she started acting really weird were it’s like she needs me to go back her pussy and she acts weird about it. Recently like very recently we did anal she squirted from anal happened a few time now. And she said after how she hates this mental battle she goes through when she does anal. When I asked what the struggle is she said I like anal but I don’t want to love it. My body is starting to prefer it and that was her fear why she didn’t want to do. Asked her why that a problem and she said it’s not normal. Showed her this forum allot in the past and I referred to it and the people here again. And she said it’s just something she feels she shouldn’t do. So don’t know what to say. I don’t force or push it. In fact I don’t ask for it I let her ask for it. Also I know even if it’s months I will get anal again from the girl she invite into our bedroom because she loves watching me fuck girls in the ass. Wish I understood it. I would be happy to never fuck any other girl if she could just give me her ass without the drama but you don’t choose who you love. And just to add she loves having sex with girls but if she sees a girl and I am not there she always make the next time me fucking that girls ass. She clearly loves the idea of anal but not with herself genuinely don’t get it.
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Is she embarrassed to admit that anal feels better than pussy? Unfortunately a lot of girls who prefer anal and even cum harder from anal will try to suppress their preference toward anal due to stigma against anal as I unfortunately saw a lot of gen-z folks and radfems on twitter trying to cancel women who genuinely enjoys anal sex. Idk if your wife is willing to be having honest communication with you about wanting to get her ass plowed so hopefully encouragement and reassurance about how it’s ok to embrace anal and there’s nothing wrong with enjoying anal, will help her. 
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I hear you, but be aware not every woman who does anal, feels like her asshole is the pleasure hole.
I’ve had had a woman who tried for 20 years to like anal. She really wanted to became an anal lover. Mentally anal sex appealed to her a lot. Yet every try she clenched and then the penetration became unpleasant. The few times she was relaxed was when she was tipsy from wine. Yet if I asked for anal she would rarely say no. I didn’t ask much though.
To her the pleasure was always in her pussy. I’m 100% sure that if she had been able to feel more pleasure from her asshole, she would have opened up to a few assfucks a week instead of max once a month.
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Hmmm what do you mean by every anal-obsessed woman’s asshole being her pleasure hole?
Thanks for sharing this. My sex life is way more vanilla than yours, but I get the idea that you can enjoy something and still have anxiety about it.
I can’t speak for other girls, but the vagina is very closely tied to my self-image as a woman. There was a guy I dated. We never did anal, but sometimes when I was on top he would start to rub my butthole. It felt sooooo good, and I thought about telling him that I was really into it and wanted to go further. But I never did. I think it was because when I realized he was interested in butt stuff, and even though I wanted it too, I was kinda offended. I started getting worried that he would need to play with my butt every time or else he couldn’t finish. Like, is my vagina not enough for you? And that made me feel like I wasn’t enough for him as a woman, which made me feel like I wasn’t enough for him generally.
It feels like there might be a slippery slope from anal only to anti-vagina to anti-woman. I’m certainly not accusing anyone here of being that way, but it’s one of the things I struggle with, and maybe part of why it took me so long to get into a truly anal relationship despite my interest. I needed a partner who made me feel comfortable as a woman to get over my fear of something I knew I wanted more of.
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Your feelings about anal may differ from mine and that’s ok. I hope you don’t feel anxious about loving anal because of the stigma against anal and the more you suppress your love for anal, the more worse your self-esteem gets. The stigma against anal affects anal-obsessed women like me, and loving anal as a woman is still controversial due to female sexuality being repressed and there is still purity and anti-kink discourses happening online. Just because I only love anal does not mean I’m promoting misogyny nor do I have internalized misogyny. I just simply hate doing anything with my birthmaking area because I’m very repulsed by my birthmaking area, hence why I felt a weird pain in my chest. I don’t go on rubbing my anal preferences on everyone’s face and I’m aware it’s never acceptable to pressure women into doing something they don’t want to do including anal. Anal truly makes me happy as an anal only woman because I truly get pleasures from anal and anal is the only sexual activity that makes me horny and improve my self-esteem. I’m sorry that you don’t have a good experience with anal before your anal journey started. 
A lot of men are turned on by anal, which is normal and natural, there’s nothing wrong with this as a lot of men are honest about their sexual preferences.This shouldn’t prevent you from enjoying anal. This may take a while for you to come on terms that you still enjoy anal on your own terms. Take your time and enjoy the anal journey
I didn’t say that. I said not every woman gets more pleasure from her asshole then her vagina.
Your personal experience is yours alone. Don’t generalize it , cause others minght not feel that way. Bust be glad you do.
I’m not generalizing. I understood that not every woman is the same way as I am when it comes to anal.
Spiller2006: What you describe about your wife – the level of internal conflict she herself says she is experiencing – is just one of many examples of how virtually all of us could benefit from some amount of therapy.
Therapy in this context is not to “fix” something that is “wrong”. In this context, therapy is to help a person explore their feelings about something that the person has already very clearly identified as an area of internal conflict for them.
For somebody feeling such internal conflict about anal sex, the subject of anal sex is almost all like other subject areas combined, and on steroids! AnalOnlyCutie has very accurately referenced, in several of her posts, at least some of the challenges and difficulties that many people (especially women) have in regard to attitudes about anal sex. While everybody is certainly different, there are many major themes regarding anal sex that are experienced by large groups of the population. It is a long list, but the underlying sources, both positive and negative, can include religion, education, family history, abuse history if any, social background, societal differences, travel and awareness of other cultures, access to information now that the Internet is “everywhere”, etc., etc., etc. Just as certain religions have a reputation for creating guilt in peoples’ minds, many factors (including religion) create negative feelings (including guilt) about anal sex.
I am a proponent of therapy for anybody and everybody. In my opinion, anybody, at various points in their life, can achieve benefits from therapy. Furthermore, since one of my “life truths” is that if something needs to happen, and will very likely happen eventually anyway (often after many years of unhappiness), then the person themself should force it out in the open. Address whatever the subjects are. Deal with them head-on. While that may result in major life changes (such as a common one: “I never actually loved him/her, I just thought I needed him/her” – perhaps resulting in divorce), in my mind, it is better to address things sooner rather than later, to get to a place of greater peace and happiness sooner, rather than later.
In my early years, therapy surely saved my life. And a “tune-up” every 10 years or so has been extremely useful for me to better understand myself and, if I had lost my way, put myself back on a track with greater happiness.
Since your wife herself identified a problem / conflict, perhaps suggest that she might want to talk with a therapist about it to help her sort out her feelings. This is not about “fixing” something; it is to better understand, her conflicted feelings. Very often with that understanding the conflicts simply melt away and everything becomes very clear. The key to all this is that whatever the outcome, you, her husband, have to be ready to embrace the outcome. Your job is to accept her, not to change her. However, if my wife is complaining that she has some pain that won’t go away, I suggest that she should make an appointment with her medical doctor. The same is true with seeing a therapist.
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Thanks. I have suggested therapy but she don’t want to engage. I’m at the stage where I am letting her lead when It comes to sex so I don’t think I’m forcing anything. I can see where therapy could be needed because I think this is more than the sexual act of anal because like I said in my previous post, she gets off on it, she like to watch me do it to other girls and it’s the only porn category she watch’s. So I don’t think it’s the act there is something deeper going on and I can’t force her to address it just suggest.
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