This was a question on a facebookgroup, all aswered by straight people. So I started wondering how anal only folks do this ?
My wife likes to use the verb “plugin” when she wants me to casually penetrate her asshole. But my favorite way for her to letting me know, is when she sends me a video of her plugged asshole, or even better, while she’s plugging her asshole. Nothing screams FUCK MY ASS like showing me she’s plugged.
I myself, are more of the straighforward type. Meaning I just tell her I want to assfuck her. Or I take out my hard cock, which mostly results in a deeptroat blowjob, followed by anal sex.
Interesting topic! With us it varies a great deal. We still have one adolescent at home so sometimes it’s quite furtive… a longer than normal glance with a particular smile, a text - usually some variation of eggplant and rose emoji, or even her hand grabbing my arm and squeezing in very deliberate manner.
When we are alone though it’s much more specific. Depending on her mood. She may say she wants to feel more connected. Most commonly she will initiate affectionate activities via kissing or rubbing my back or legs. My favourite are the straight up verbal requests, “I want to be fucked”, “I want u to take me”, “my ass is hungry for your cock”. As an AO couple we always talk abt how great it is that for us the term “sex” is always anal and we have no worries abt what is expected.
My wife enjoys the ritual of preparing for our anal encounters… cleaning out with an enema, bathing, and getting ready with a plug in her ass. With the exception of “fuckations”, our anal encounters occur on weekends. Saturday afternoon and many times again on Sunday morning when we wake up. Wake up anal is very erotic.
On rare occasions, my wife will guide my cock into her pussy with a plug in her ass. In what seems like less than a minute, she’ll ask me to take the plug out and says “fuck me”. This means she wants to be fucked in the ass.
“Fuckations” are completely different, and often involve impromptu anal sessions every day.
When my partner says, “Shall we play tonight?”, it means a good, long, wet session with all our sex toys. When it’s my turn to invite her, I usually says, “The [name-of-toy] is missing you”. (Each of our toys has a cute name).
The most common is a simple “Do you want to sleep with him inside?”, or “Let’s put him to sleep swaddled”. Magic words, I never deny this request. Once a while I like to reply with a “but today isn’t friday”, only to hear from her, “Do it! That’s an order!”.
But the best of all is when, in the middle of night, she silently takes off her pajama pants and panties, and wakes me up by rubbing that cozy ass against me. No words are needed, but she usually says, “put it in and stay still”. I almost cum just hearing that…
I have no tact. I just grab his head and whisper in his ear, “fuck my ass” unless we’re playing around already and then I’ll make sure he’s naturally lubed up and then sink myself down his shaft. He’s equally creative by whispering in my ear some variation of, “I want your ass!”
