I’m here to say hello and to introduce myself. I’m a divorced 40 year old with like-minded thoughts like all of you. I’m a Swedish midlife man. Divorced, single father with adult children, house and job.
My interest in this kink started about 10 years ago when I came across “AOL content” on tumbler. My sex-life has been extremely mediocre with the mother of my children. So it was really an eye-opener when I got to read about other people’s thoughts, like-minded ideas and how others chose to live their lives. A strong longing and great need grew during this time. But my wife was not at all interested in this kind of activity unfortunately. I made the choice at that time that my priorities were to let my sexual needs take a back seat, which was San but right for me at the time. Now the situation is different. I’m divorced (This is not related to my sexual preferences though) and my children are old enough to fend for themselves even though they still live at home.
It’s time to start exploring and if it’s possible to develop this part of myself. I’m straight but I love it when I meet a woman who can give me a good “rim rib” which is also something I love to give. But meeting a woman who has the same preferences and is interested in “AOL” is very difficult I’ve noticed.
I wish all of you couples who have met and had the chance to make this journey together the best of luck and I really hope I get to experience this in my life eventually. In my opinion, you can consider yourselves very lucky.
I look ok and don’t have a problem making “friends”, but I don’t like hookup culture and I think that reading and hanging out with you and your thoughts can give me some new perspectives and new ideas while waiting for the woman who suits me
Welcome, I will make you full member after I wrote this.
Prior to 2021 I would never have believed I would end up in an anal only relationship with the woman I dreamt of. Still it happened. I wasn’t looking for it, it simply happened to me. I happened to meet a woman who felt better with my cock in her asshole. So much she was on board to go anal only the moment I adressed it to her. Now, 4 years later, no regrets and very happily anal only.
So I believe this is not something you can chase after, unless you’re willing to face countless rejections. And even then it’s not sure you’ll find the one.
Vlad, It’s nice to meet you. I hope you find the community here that you are seeking. It is a good group with many different perspectives and experiences represented. Don’t hesitate to ask questions or share your experiences.
Your nickname reminded me of a hentai I watched a few years ago, the name was something like “anal vampires”. Instead of drinking blood, the vampire fed by extracting anal orgasms from his partners through his penis during anal sex. Crazy idea, I know, but definitely better than the usual monster with tentacles.
Haha I haven’t seen that one. But I haven’t watched much hentai so maybe it’s not that strange.
The name comes from Vlad the Third Dracula. Also known as Vlad the Impaler. He thought it was a good hobby to impale soldiers from the Ottoman Empire during the 16th century. They murdered his family in batches and tried to take his country, Transylvania (Romania).
Vlad was a pretty bloodthirsty king and he lives in the books today as the Vampire king Dracula.
Maybe a bit of a terrible connection, but I also like impaling women (with their consent of course, unlike Vlad) in their asses with my dick
