Hi everyone,
I’m a 30+ year old man, recently married to my wife who’ve i’ve dated for 6 years. I’m curious about the lifestyle and seeking advice to navigate through this. I grew up experiencing sex as a beautiful thing and explored it. My wife was raised by a narcissist and has almost no experience with sex or exploring the topic.
My experiences are with both men and women, and mostly positive experiences. Never went full anal only, except with someone who was transgender. My wife has no experience outside of PIV.
I joined this because I was curious about the lifestyle after stumbling upon it.
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Hi and welcome. One simple word of advice: please don’t expect your wife to simply flip over to anal only life. Especially if she’s raised by a narcissist, cause this will have turned her into a codependant person who has trouble refusing anything, even things she doesn’t want to do.
So communication is very important here. Really understand what she wants. Talk to her over and over.
Introduce her to anal gently, read her body language, let her know she’s in no way obligated to accept it. It should be her choice to want it.
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I agree, and I also posted in advice further detailing our sex life so far.
Very well said, BDL.
(The system say I have to have at least 24 characters to respond, so here they are.)
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