I ran by this site today and was happy to find a place that serves my cravings. I am definitely not an expert on anal or the AO lifestyle, but that’s all I’d look for when watching porn.
I’ve only had one anal experience in college and I’ve been fascinated about this “taboo” act ever since.
I’m married, but my wife does not want anal. So I hope to learn more about the AO lifestyle by reading shared stories as well as connecting with others in this forum. Thank you to all that have posted their stories. I find it very intoxicating to read and I’m thrilled to read more.
Welcome. I’m also from the Midwest but in Colorado now. Long story but my wife discovered anal later in life. We’ve been anal only for 6 years. Hormone therapy boosted her libido and I spent significant time playing with her ass to the point she learned it gave her pleasure, and eventually, anal orgasms. Happy to provide advice. Welcome.
Hi, I have been married for 23 years to a woman who was okay with anal sex, but in our peak years we did it only once a month.
You can just aswel never do anal then, cause her asshole simply could not adjust to penetration. So the last years of that marriage I didn’t ask anymore and I know it can be frustrating.
Then after the divorce I met another woman who asked me if I wanted to use her other hole. With her I had anal 2-3 times a week. A whole new world opened and I enjoyed that till the point she became very toxic and thus became my ex too.
My current girlfriend told me the first week she loves anal sex. Even so I’ve waited a few months to do it and when we did we opened a door that never closed again. She’s want to have her ass fucked as much as possible, as in daily and even multiple times a day. We’re anal only for 3,5 year now and to me, nothing is more powerfull then a woman giving up pussy penetration in favor of constant asshole penetration.
In the first marriage I could never have imagined being anal exclusive by the age of 51. I’m really having the time if my life.
It sounds oversimplified but my goal was to tease her ass to the point she craved more anal play and penetration. The hormone therapy restored her libido which helped her associate anal play with pleasure.
We later learned birth control meds killed her libido. Ironically, had we been anal only she wouldn’t have needed birth control.
As @aNewFrivolity said, I helped Mrs Colt learn and love anal play and penetration. She experiences powerful anal orgasms, which supported her decision to be anal only.
Last, communication is key. Let her know your strong desire for anal. Tell her you’d like to show her anal pleasure and be very, very patient. Start small and go slow. My wife rejected anal the first 37 years of our marriage and now she’s my anal only queen. If it could happen for us, it can happen for you and your wife. There are plenty of people here happy to offer advice.
I think you do need to realize that, dispite all the patience in the world, not every woman will be won over to anal only.
My two exes were extremely pussy oriented, as is their good right. My current girlfriend is totally not pussy oriented. She only came from vaginal when I fucked her pussy. Her ex could only make her cum with anal sex. Her asshole is where the true pleasure is.
But the previous women in my life had more of a joy from asshole stimulation, without any chance to cum from it.
Then there is a saying I read once, shared on this forum and seemed very true: “if the heart says yes, the asshole says yes”. Anal sex works best with a woman who loves and trusts you without any doubt.
Welcome to the forum Sigma. You have obviously gotten some great info by our members here.
My wife was very against it and I knew that sooner or later I would get her to enjoy me touching her ass. I just said to her that I’m going to be very respectful, not insert anything, close her eyes & tune into how she feels, tune in to what makes her horny.
I basically just teased her ass with very light touching, blew on it from time to time. She got into it and thought it felt fantastic. It was a while had gone by and then I lightly liked her ass; she loved that & the rest is history.
