New to this forum ,
We are couple age 40-42
We are introducing our self’s to anal, so far has been good , but I have one little problem that my husband, once I go anal, he goes like 5-6 pushes and he cums so fast … I tried to go slowly so he won’t cum but he seems like he can’t hold it for longer, Last weekend we were having sex in the shower which I came 2 times and I decided to Surprise him with anal and the moment he inserted his ( penis head) with 5 pushes he came, how do I keep him going longer and harder, I am having some kind of orgasem that I haven’t experienced before
Welcome! The reason we’re anal only is because of her anal orgasms. As you said, they’re much different. For my wife, they are very powerful.
The reason he might be cumming so fast is because he’s so turned on by anal that he’s overstimulated. Practice makes perfect and “practicing” anal is a lot of fun.
They make lubricant that can desensitize his cock to potentially delay his ejaculation, but the lubricant will transfer to you resulting in desensitizing your sphincter. This can be dangerous for you because it’s important for you to differentiate between anal pain and anal pleasure.
He may want to try a cock ring. They hold blood in the cock resulting in a lasting and rock hard erection. Rings can help delay ejaculation as well. I use metal rings but they also make rubber cock rings with a bit of stretch.
Give it time and let him adjust to the most erotic and intimate sex act known. Welcome to the forum!
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As I understand it you both recently started the anal sex ?
So I suspect he’s still in the "ooh man, I can’t believe I’m fucking her aaaaaargh… " fase.
Give it time and let him assfuck you daily if you can handle it. It will get better.
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Hello, and welcome!
When we started having anal sex, I took a few weeks to desensitize my wife’s anus and, in the process, I ended up desensitizing myself as well. I think it would be good for him too!
So, choose a position where you can both stay still for a long time; for us, the spooning worked very well. Then, lubricate the penis and insert only the head. When the head goes in, relax you both and remain still. There is a mix of sensations, as if a soft classical music were playing in the background and you could only hear it if you remained silent for a while. Personally, I feel my wife’s anus pulling me in, it feels insanely good. Take your time, relax and enjoy the trip!
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