Glad this forum was saved and thanks to those with the skills and time to make it happen!
I’m here because my wife and I discovered the most erotic sex later in life. I want to share what we’ve learned over years of anal only with those looking for tips and suggestions. If you want a closer connection with your mate, anal is the best way to achieve it.
I had anal sex with two women before meeting my wife. While I always included anal play in our lovemaking, she swore she couldn’t take me. We tried and had to stop many, many times.
Menopause came later in life for her so she started hormone replacement therapy. In three months her libido skyrocketed. I took our anal play to a different level and she responded. She experienced her first anal orgasm during anal play.
She realized the difference between a clitoral and anal orgasm and quickly preferred anal play. Not long after I penetrated her anally and she orgasmed within minutes. It didn’t take me long before I came deep in her ass. I’ll never forget the moment.
She often expresses regret she didn’t try harder years ago but I like the fact we discovered something that has brought us even closer together later in life. She has powerful orgasms and now only occasionally squirts. The first few years of anal only she’d soak the sheets during an intense session.
Welcome to the new site! I love hearing about couples who love anal. A woman who discovers the pleasures of anal is amazing! And a woman who prefers it to vaginal is a treasure!
I intend to set the example for older couples to enjoy anal until it’s too grotesque for anyone to imagine… and love every minute of it!
Who can point a tech-challenged Boomer to a guide on using the new format for this new site. I can’t see a reply option on any of the posts except this one. Any advice on using this new format would be appreciated. Thanks!
I’m kind of a younger kiddo, but I think this knowledge may come in handy if the moment ever comes my way.
It may sound weird, but could you ask her what that difference is? Like, what a vaginal and anal orgasm feel and what makes them different.
Also, from the fact that you mentioned that she underwent a hormone therapy, maybe the fact that she didn’t like anal at first was because she was a bit doubtful about anal, and her libido made her want “something more”.
If I’m bothering you, excuse me. I’m just some curious virgin kiddo that likes learning about many things.
You just needed to be added to members group, that will give you more privileges, after introduction. You are there now and you should be able to create topics everywhere and reply to everything.
We were all kiddos once. My purpose here is to share experiences and help others where I can.
I didn’t mention my wife took oral birth control for many decades. We believe it killed her libido. We still had a very active sex life but she never orgasmed during vaginal penetration, only during oral or digital clitoral stimulation. The birth control meds suppressed testosterone which women actually need. The hormone therapy, which includes testosterone, helped “wake up” her libido.
When a man has an orgasm there is usually a refractory period where the head of the penis is so sensitive it can’t be touched. Clitoral orgasms are similar. I can continue to pound away after she has one or more anal orgasms.
She describes anal orgasms as a whole body experience. She experiences a tingle up her spine. They are powerful and her body often convulses during anal orgasm. Her anal orgasms are the most erotic thing I’ve ever experienced. It’s an empowering feeling making a woman cum that hard with your cock.
Angle of penetration during anal is important. She prefers an angle away from her uterus which follows the shape and angle of the rectum. I’ve read there are two reasons why women experience anal orgasm. First, the clitoris circles into the body surrounding the uterus. Anal sex can touch these clitoral legs as the rectum is next to the uterus. Another theory is a man’s cock can stimulate the pudendal nerve during anal. Because my wife prefers anal penetration away from the uterus, I believe it is stimulation of the pudendal nerve that delivers her anal orgasms.
I encourage the women on the forum to chime in and offer their perspectives on female anal orgasm. I will tell you this… it is ENTIRELY because of her powerful anal orgasms that we immediately decided we are anal only. And by the way, her powerful anal orgasms always make me cum hard. It’s a beautiful thing!
Thank you! This group was really my first foray in social media. I have all the various platforms like FB, Instagram, X, etc but I don’t engage on those platforms like I do here.
Welcome to the forum. Your story shows the importance of being patient and when the moment is right, the experience is incredible. I think your wife made a good choice and listening to her body. Personally I find anal orgasms more powerful and satisfying than clitoral. I was initially worried about stopping clitoral stimulation but it was the best decision I ever made. Have fun and enjoy
Initially, she never rubbed her clit or used a vibrator, and still experienced anal orgasm. She says a vibrator enhances her anal experience. She tosses the vibrator aside when she feels her anal orgasm approaching but I’d like to see her try to achieve anal orgasm without the vibrator.
If you can give me some tips to pass along to her I’d appreciate it.
I think I’ll have to do some research on why anal orgasms have a “full-body” effect.
I’m yet (and far from) to experience an orgasm that isn’t from masturbation (I’m not masturbating again), but hearing your experiences give me some calmness that I’m not the only one that finds anal sex attractive in some way.
A partner is hard to find and seems far away, but time is plenty. So I guess I’ll continue with my curiosity.
If you were me, how would you recommend me to approach this?
Not seeking for anyone in the near, mid or far-future anymore (they’ll have to seek for me).
