I think I’ve figured out how to make my girlfriend orgasm consistently with only stimulation from the ass, which we both think is incredible. And she’s also well trained enough now that her brain considers anal sex as normal as vaginal sex. Suffice to say, things are going pretty well.
However, she told me that anal only orgasms feel “hollow”, in that the stimulation from penetration that causes orgasm is from pressing against the right spot in her pussy through the anal wall, causing a similar orgasm to regular vaginal intercourse, except because her pussy is empty, it contracts around nothing, hence the “hollow” sensation.
On one hand, I’m a sadist and I love pussy denial, and the idea that she feels good and orgasms, and that makes her pussy long for more, only to not get touched turns me on (she knows this). On the other hand, it means that for now, she’s made it clear she wants to continue having vaginal penetration from time to time.
At this point, I’m pretty ok with whatever compromise we come to, because I’m pretty sure that it will involve a large majority of our sex being anal/oral, but I wanted to know if anyone else has any experience with feelings like this.
As for where we go from here, we are still anal only until New Years for previously mentioned health reasons due to condom concerns, and during that time, I plan to give her the most pleasurable experiences I can as well consistent orgasms from anal if possible. And once we try vaginal again, we’ll see how it compares for her.