33 year old Austrian man here who has been in love with anal ever since his first girlfriend let him into her butt.
As my name suggests, I love looking at gapes during anal sex.
I’m curious about anal only, but have no experience with it so far, since in my relationship, anal isn’t as present as I would like it to be. My partner does enjoy it from time to time, but needs to be in a specific mood for that.
So I’d simply enjoy talking about all things anal here and wish you all a great day!
I’ve been where you are. With a woman who wanted anal once a month tops. Or if she was drunk she would occasionally ask for it. And those were also the moments it worked for her.
The anal sex died out in that relationship, cause it wasn’t what I wanted. I needed more, I needed free access, a woman who enjoyed being assfucked. If I couldn’t have that, I’d rather stuck to vanilla sex and blowjobs.
But we divorced and the future had a whole other woman waiting for me. One who loves anal sex and was on board with anal only from te moment I told her it was a thing. Sometimes life gives you sweet cherries.
Oh man, don’t make him lose his hopes. I know it’s possible to turn your partner into your anal queen: for me it was necessary just patience, love, comprehension and a little twist of destiny. I didn’t need to change wives to live my dream.
Welcome, Mr. GapeAddict! Share your journey with us.
I agree. Most women who become anal only do so through a process. Sometimes the process move quickly, sometimes more slowly. When we were first married, I slipped while fucking my wife’s pussy doggy-style and rammed it straight in her ass, she shrieked in pain and said she would never have anal sex. Less than a year later, and I was finishing in her ass every time we had sex at her insistance.14 years later and she’s the one that suggested we go anal only. This July will be 20 years of anal only and 35 years of anal every time. In our mid-fifties, we’re having anal sex pretty much every day. We attribute our healthy sex life to anal only.
Completely agree with your last sentence. It took our sex life into the stratosphere, and later in life.
I don’t know if anyone else feels this way, but I always try to make each session better than the last. She cums hard, I cum hard.
I’m several weeks I turn 70, and celebrate our 7th analversary (different dates). She went from swearing I’d never penetrate her ass to anal only in less than 2 months.