For those with older children, when do you do it?

The Valentine’s Day thread got me thinking…

It would be so nice to plan anything that included sex for V-day or any other day for that matter. However, living with 2 teenagers, who stay up just as late, even later :rofl: than us, limits the opportunities severely. Working from home opened up opportunities while they were at school but now with one at university, and the need to spend some time back at the office opportunities have become rare again. Bugger!

Anyone else in/have been in this situation?

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Being a teenager myself, I shared a house with other teenagers! When Dale and I first got together he stayed over a few times but we were conscious of making any noise with my housemates on the other side of each wall. By the time we commenced our anal journey I was staying over at Dale’s with no teenagers or other adults. Interestingly we are at Karen’s and Cory’s this weekend. Their house is incredible sitting on an acre of land. I can scream ‘fuck me harder’ as loud as I like and there is nobody around to hear my encouragement!

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That’s just rubbing it in :rofl:

Hmm, perhaps we could go house hunting and inspect vacant properties for sale in the area!

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I was rubbing with 3 cocks in my ass lol

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As Dale reminded me this morning it has taken a while for him to get used to his cock rubbing off Lee’s and Cory’s although he also said I was tighter than Tiff! Liar!

My wife is rarely a screamer, and we don’t use any toys that would make noise, so we just fuck pretty much every night when we go to bed. Sometimes, on the weekends, we say we are going to take a nap and retreat to the bedroom.

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It depends on the noise you make.

Like we have a co parenting thing here. One week her two youngest are here, the other week we’re alone.

If the kids are here, we have good sex. In the bedroom, both kids pretty nearby. So when I cum I swallow my intensity and keep myself from grunting. It takes an effort which, strangely, often adds to the pleasure”.

If the kids aren’t here I am often amazed about how loud I am. I am convinved neighbours can sometimes hear me orgasm :rofl: And the sex is better.

Reaching my orgasm in my finacee’s asshole is - without a doubt - the most intense sexual experience I ‘ve ever had the pleasure to have. It goes further then just the assfuck. It’s all about the pleasure she clearly get’s out of having my cock up her asshole.

Sometimes I think that on an off day for her, despite it not being that empatic, I should just assfuck her. But I still didn’t had the nerve to actually do it. :relieved:

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We were away in a hotel last weekend for Sunday night. We noticed another young couple in the bar with their room key on the table. We went up to our room before them. Dale went down to get a drink for our room. As he was on his way back he noted that the young couple were in the room next door. They were bloody loud. I could clearly hear ‘yes, fuck my ass’. I joked with Dale, shall we ask if we can join them lol. If they had children in the room next to them, I’m pretty sure they would not be bothered! Dale was turned on listening to them having fun so we had our own fun but we were a lot quieter as I was biting on the strap for my back pack!

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:thinking: hmm… I’ve been vocal before during sex, but the better it is, the quieter I get. Silence means it’s amazing. :laughing: I always think I’m being really loud because I’m being obscenely loud in my head, but it’s like pleasure disconnects my vocal cords.

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Hehe, the older I get and the more connected to my body I am during sex and/or orgasm, the louder I get.
It’s interesting and amazing to hear lovers comment on how great it is to hear me make that noise :smiley:

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Cate and I have 2 beautiful daughters. One will be 22 and the other one will be 20 this year. They are both going to University and tbh, Cate and I can’t wait to kick them out the house…LOL! We both love walking around the house nude when they aren’t around :grin:

When do we do it? Mostly when both are at University. But when they are home as our bedroom is away from the living area, we do it too, due to them being at the other end of the house.

Before Tantra, both of us were super quiet and conscious. After Tantra, we are a lot louder. Oh my god, when both girls are at Uni, Cate lets out some rippers when she orgasms. I think at least, that is awesome for Cate to be free enough to do that. As we all know, sounds turns us on as a species. In Tantra we were encouraged if you do have kids, don’t hide the fact that you are having sex. It is healthy for kids to hear their parents having sex, laughing, making joyous noises, coming from the bedroom. For it sets a precedent about sex for them, how they behave around sex & not hide it.

The greatest thing that we can do for our kids is to openly show our love for each other. Often the kids will catch us in the middle of a pash session in the living area. I’m constantly touching Cate as I have learned to be a Master of creating sexual friction. Cate tells me how I make her feel special when I touch her on a regular basis. The kids see that and are way happier as a result of our behaviour towards each other.

The greatest gift you can give towards your kids, is to show your love towards each other. If they hear you having sex, so be it. Don’t hide under a rock, be proud and confident. Go for it!

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Completely agree with you. Her primal grunts when she cums are a huge turn on. I’m also very loud when I cum. Anal stimulates ALL of the senses… sight, sound, touch, smell, and taste. I enjoy the entire package of senses anal offers.

Our “kids” are 40 and 36 and, fortunately, out of the house. While Mrs Colt is terrified our kids will discover the plethora of anal toys we’ve accumulated, it’s my opinion they’d be happy knowing we love each other and can still enjoy sex later in life.

The older members of this group should give great hope to the younger members that they too can enjoy a great sex life in their older years. Discovering anal was a complete game changer for us as Tantra was a game changer for you and Cate.

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Thanks Colt. I wholeheartedly agree with you that if the kids did find all your anal toys, they might be surprised, but they would be happy for you both. I reckon it would give them hope seeing their parents still active :grin:. You’re an inspiration.

I’m lucky to have met Mrs Colt but eating healthy, working out, and staying active help us extend this as long as possible. I hope I’m active in this group at 90 chatting about the awesome anal session we just had.

Enjoy every minute you have. It truly goes by in the blink of an eye.

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