Two fav. postions for me (as the receiving fem.) - the first is with me bent over a sturdy table (I love picnic tables outdoors!) where I am really supported and cannot move, so that whoever is behind me can really thrust and shoot into me as hard as they want - this is one for when I just want raw, hard sex, to feel used and taken. The other - more loving, is for me to be face down on a bed “prone bone” - maybe over a pillow to raise my bum up, and than for long, slow, deep thrusts as I am covered. Finally, the giver cums inside me and then relaxes, with their weight full on me (it’s quite comfortable!), and remaining still inside me until it finally relaxes and just slips out of its own accord. In both these positions, neither of us can see the other’s faces, and so can run any secret personal fantasy scenarios in our own heads - I love dreaming that I don’t know who is fucking me (and sometimes, this has been true!)
Great question… her favorite position is standing up bent over the side of the bed. When she’s ready for anal, she’ll slip off the bed, spread her cheeks, and bend over. She often cums within a few minutes of penetration.
My favorite position is her laying on her back at the corner of the bed and me standing. I can watch her enjoy the experience and I feel this allows me to penetrate her ass as deeply as possible.
Once in a while she’ll get on her knees on an ottoman or low chair and me taking her ass standing. These are our three go-to positions.
It’s a bit funny to me that you say spooning is easy, @analena ; I’ve had problems with that position more often than it worked.
When it does work, it’s so-so. Better for cuddling, I think.
I love the oyster/pretzel so I can see my partner’s face, and because pushing their legs up to get a better angle is so much fun.
Doggy is great for the sheer power you can use, both for thrusting and by pulling her ass back towards you at the same time. Great for hard ass fucking
It is hard to pick a favorite … what I want to experiment more with are bar stools and positions where my partner has her knees tucked under herself, like the stone in yoga.
As for prone bone, this is great, too, but a big butt will get in the way of deep thrusts. Gives great feelings of being in control, though.
For those into it, I recommend grabbing the receiving partner’s hair and pulling. They can’t move at all with it, which increases the feeling of helplessness
One fav position ? Her on her back at the side of the bed. It’s a boxspring bed which put her at perfect height to assfuck her. Looking at her facial expressions, while assfucking her, is a huge bonus to me. I would even dare to say she’s the first woman who’s face I adore to see during sex.
I bent her legs back to penetrate her as deep as possible. I can bow over her to kiss her. Play with her tits, and - most important - have a great view on her unused pussy.
While I like prone bone a LOT, I really love missionary. Prone bone is great when my girlfriend or lover just wants to fuck me, and I come a lot and easily from prone bone, but missionary with my girlfriend is just so intimate. I love feeling them on top of me and looking at them and touching them while they’re in me. Only problem is that missionary is harder for me to come with lol, so at some point we usually end up switching to prone or cowgirl so I can come.
Doggy will also always be a favorite for us. She finds the angle of penetration, doggy provides, extremely enjoyable. Especially ass up, face down and flat on her belly with me on top, make her moan so load.
She loves the feeling of being taken by me. It add a lot to the pleasure.
Oh yes. The hair pull. If she’s into it, you can pull her head all the way back so she has to arch her back and look up at the ceiling. SO much more vulnerable
Or even go for the fish hooks: Take two fingers of each hand and insert them into her mouth, then pull back. Her moans will sound a hundred times more sloppy.
She has to be into degradation for that, of course
I’m going to need a description or illustration of the “oyster/pretzel” position. We’re in very good shape for “senior anal-only citizens” but will we need to train rigorously to experience this position? We employ pre-penetration “stretching” of her beautiful starfish but don’t include legs, arms, and core in any pre-sex exercises. Just curious… along with an urge to use some stupid humor along the way.
Both start with the woman on her back. For anal I would strongly recommend having the ass at the edge of the bed.
For the oyster position you basically kneel before the bed, take her legs, lift them straight up and spread them a bit. That should be manageable by most. This should give you a lovely view of her pussy and ass. If the ass isn@t quite the right position, a pillow might help.
Pretzel starts the same, but now she takes her leg, from the inside, and bends them back as far as possible - which probably isn@t that far, but will result in a satisfying stretch and a very vulnerable feeling.
These are my favorites! Our bed is at the perfect height for her to lay on her back at the corner with me standing. I either push her legs back and apart when penetrating her ass or she uses her arms to either spread and move her legs back or pull them tight to her chest. I like it because I’m able to penetrate her ass deeply. Never heard it referred to as “oyster and pretzel”. There are other positions depicted in porn that require international gymnastics level abilities we will likely never attempt!
Any position in which I give her most/all control over me should do it. It’s her anus, so she should decide what to do with it, and if she wants sex, then I wouldn’t say no.
One of my dreams is having her doing me a cowgirl or any variation if it in the first time, after I prime her before letting her take control.
mostly we do anal fuck in just few positions. me riding him with his cock in my anal if it’s just us, or I and another girl stack together 69 or kissing while he fucks us in turns.
or he lets me lie on a chair head down ass up so he can play with my ass with toys.
I must say, riding isn’t really mine. I know the theory says that way I get to control everything - but I actually find it pretty difficult to get everything just right. Better to have him surprise me…