Has anyone here had a good experience with a trans woman?
I’ve been with a few men who seek us (trans/femboys) because they love the idea of 100% anal and no pussy in sight.
What are your thoughts and experiences?
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I only like good looking trans women that you can’t tell the difference between them and a good looking cis woman. But I still would choose a cis woman that’s acceptive of my AO sexuality over a trans woman every turn. The fact trans women can’t do vaginal is hot, but I still prefer natural females.
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For me anal sex is not just a hole. And it matters who it belongs to. So the partner must be 100% female
If she has a cock, I will see a he.
So sex with a pre op trans woman will not be sex with a woman to me. A big part of the appeal for being anal only with my girlfriend, is her unused pussy. Her choice to have her asshole fucked, dispite having another hole which is commonly accepted as being the true fuckhole.
Transwomen only have one fuckable hole. Even post op, the manmade vagina is nearly impossible to fuck. Too shallow and too much problems to try keeping it open. The body wants to make it grow back together.
So trans women will have to be anal only by default. They don’t chose to do it.
And this is coming from a man who really gave this a serious thought, because my ex said I must me a latent homo for being this anal sex oriented.
Now my girlfriend thinks I’m as hetero as I possibly can be 
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Even if the cock remains limp and useless?
I feel that the same way a cis woman chooses to deny her pussy, trans women deny their penis in order to be AO (those who decide not to use it). Feels the same to me.
I chose to be 100% bottom and not have my peepee used and be AO always.
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Yes even if it is limp, it’s still there and my primal instict will see a dressed up man. Making me probably just as limp.
I am not wired like normal men. I don’t get hard easily. And I most certainly don’t get hard over just any woman. In my first marriage it was no problem to go 3 weeks without any kind of sex. In this relationship I go nuts if it’s more then 3 days.
My finacee is the first woman who gets me hard over a hug, or because of kissing with tongue. She is she first woman who has this primal erotic effect on me and I am very happy I finally get to experience it.
So to nuance my previous comment. Before her my life and sexual experience looked very different compared to other men. In that mindset then, because I needed extra stimuli to get hard, I realized a trans woman could maybe do the same things to get me hard and succeed.
But I discoverd in this relationship, that it was a simplified way of thinking.
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I think I could only have sex with a trans woman after there is no penis and there is a vagina.I have watched anal porn orgies with pre-op trans women and I’m afraid it just doesn’t float my boat. So I think that’s a fairly good indication of how I’d react. Maybe if I hadn’t had any sex in months and I didn’t know, and upon discovery, might be too aroused to stop - maybe?
I am just not attracted to men and like backdoorlover, the difference a penis makes is huge.I think I could participate in the same orgie but there’d be no interaction between us.
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It’s simply a matter of how we’re wired. I’m guessing we’re the only specious that is able to experience and understand the pleasure of sex. Through experimentation, humans find different ways of finding pleasure, including the sexual attraction to persons of the same gender, or in more recent times, transgendered persons.
My wiring involves a very strong sexual attraction to women only. It’s not bigoted, as some have suggested, just as attraction to women with different physical characteristics isn’t bigoted. I’ve read others say what difference does it make if you’re fucking someone in the ass, but with me and others, it makes a world of difference.
Be it an attraction to the same gender, trans persons, or women, the pleasure we experience during anal sex is a matter of how our brains are wired. My two cents for what it’s worth. By the way, that colloquialism will soon be obsolete in the U.S. when production of the penny is eliminated.
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