Valentines day used to be a day to ask for anything special. Somerthing out of the ordinairy, like… yeah, anal 
In an anal only relationship, we men never need to worry about the next time we’re “allowed” to use her backdoor. How great is that ? 
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Excellent point, it is great. People cannot be happy without gratitude, and I am so grateful for my situation. And happy.
My valentins day was still something worthy to bragg about.
She went upstairs after work. I keep going a few hours from that moment on. We we’re doing some sexting about things we’re going to do with eachother. But I didn’t ask her to do a douche or anything. I wanted to see what she’d do out of her own will, to make this night a horny as possible.
Few hours later I go upstairs. Her daughter was in the house, so the bedroom was our designation. I walked into the bedroom and the mood was set in one look upon her:
Extremly short skirt, not covering her whole ass
Sled heels so she’d be at perfect fucking height when standing.
A top I bought her, with the text “deeptroat princess” over her tits. Of course no bra. But she never wears a bra.
And plugged with a plug that has my name on it, saying “my name ‘s fuckhole”.
So I first told her she had to make the text on her top reality. And pulled out my hard cock. She took it deeptroat in the first moment it slid into her mouth. Damn fantastic. After a few minutes I pulled her up and pushed her on the bed on her back, penetrated her asshole and fucked her like crazy. At some point I pulled out to lick her clit and finger her asshole. Made her edge as long as I could, shoved my cock back in her ass and fucked het even harder. I’ve then told her to suck my cock, straight from her ass. I love ass to mouth 
And she did cause she was prepaired to give me good ass to mouth sex
After some nice sucking, I turned her around to assfuck her doggystyle. Gave her ass a really good pounding. She was moaning so hard I’m sure her daughter heard it. Then I brought my head to her ear and gently said “now turn around and suck my cock again” and I’ve never seen her turn around and drop on her knees so fast. She was clearly eager to do some more ass to mouth. From that moment on I’ve let her suck my cock till I shot my load into her mouth. And my orgasm would not have been better in her ass. It was sooo good.
After something like 15 mins I told her to spread her legs and ate her clit while fingering her asshole with two fingers.
Being ass to mouth only with her is simply the best thing I could have ever wished for. My true valentine for life.
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Sounds like you had an excellent Valentine’s Day as well. Congratulations, your stamina is impressive.
Funny that you mention my stamina. Cause I’ve never had stamina in ealier relationships. I hated it, felth like a whimp.
Coïncidently I now happen to have the stamina to assfuck my wife for 20 to 40 mins, and I don’t understand where that came from. We love it nevertheless. Nothing beats long sessions of ass to mouth sex and then go for my orgasm when we’ve fucked long enough.
Backdoorlover: I suspect that your now-greater stamina comes from “everything feeling right”. You have – in other threads – described how there were difficulties in previous relationships and partners who may have sometimes been “willing to accommodate” anal sex, but they were apparently not enjoying it.
In my experience, my partner’s reaction and interest level is where my energy comes from. You have described now having a partner (congratulations on your marriage, by the way) that apparently loves the sexual activities that the two of you do. From my perspective, that explains everything!
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I am always relaxed with her. She’s never pushy. She never creates mental barriers. It does make a world of difference in how I live life now.
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My ex wife had her first anal with me. I told her at that time that I’ll make her ask for it after a while, and that’s exactly how it went down.
After she learned to love anal there were no more Valentine’s “presents”, she would pretty much ask for it almost every time we had sex.
As far as stamina goes, I myself noticed that I could last far longer going raw (no lube), then with lube. I think it has to do with average speed, lubed up I’d go faster throughout the sex.
And the stamina is for me first and foremost impacted by the position, I could go the longest in missionary, while shortest in cowgirl. But I think that’s more of a mental thing not so much the feeling.
I think the (extreme) opposite is also true. I commented in another topic that, with too much lube, I can’t feel her tightness, then I couldn’t cum. It looked like thrusting in the air.
So… the less lube, the better.
This is how we both feel. She produces so much anal mucous, we only need saliva or a small spot of lube so I can push past her sphincter. Once I’ve penetrated, I slowly and shallowly penetrate her ass with short thrusts while my cock picks up her mucous. Once I’m balls deep, no more lube is needed. I’d say our anal penetration is between 15 to 30 minutes and no lube whatsoever is needed. There is much more “feeling” for both of us. For obvious reasons, silicone lube is the worst for anyone who wants to feel the experience.
Also, that painfully slow initial penetration is an incredibly erotic experience. It requires trust and patience. It’s so erotic, my wife often has her first anal orgasm shortly after I’ve fully penetrated her. I concur that no lube or minimal lube is the way to go for experienced “analists”.
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