I used to think keeping shoes on was a turn on, but in the end, for me, everything has to come off - it means something like complete control and domination in my perverted brain, or total enthusiasm and willingness (ha ha see control has switched back to the woman).
I do love total nakedness to begin with as it shows an eagerness to get started but I have seen some very sexy g-string type harness clothing that exposes nipples and arse very nicely.
I love the look of “no barriers” but I also like that look of a pair of knickers pulled down and left on the thighs (before eventual complete removal) it gives the feeling of not being able to wait or control the urge to get arse fucked.
I find the right clothing can add to the eroticism and sensuality.
I’d describe our anal only relationship as “BDSM light”. I bought the leather bra and harness outfit from an online vendor in Ukraine. She was great to deal with and the quality of leather and construction is superb. She doesn’t wear this all the time but it really adds to the anal experience IMHO. https://obsessharness.com/bondage-bra-leather/
Mr. Firefly goes crazy for short skirts paired with a thong. Also some short negligee or such like things, crotchless or back-less panties, etc. A lot of times though we get started when I’m in my normal flannel pants and shirt for bed and then we get carried away and the next thing I know I’m panting, naked, and wondering where the hell my clothes went.
I have a short leather skirt with frilly undies or none at all. I love the feeling of walking in public like this. Its just long enough so I’m not on full display. I remember gong to Heathrow Airport on the underground dressed like this. A couple of student types were sitting opposite Dale and I, They appeared to be curious so I did a Basic Instinct!!
