For the women: A relationship with a good and emotionally stable man seems boring, or it’s peaceful, healthy and fulfilling?
I am a solid, emotionally available man and my fiancee adores this in me. Sometimes she would build a statue to hones me for it. Why ?
Because her ex is a grown child who couldn’t even talk to her in a way she felt the message came across.
If I make a mistake, I own it. I apologise and admit it. But if I am conviced the mistake wasn’t mine, I will not. Never. I expect the same treatment towards me. And she is emotionally developped enough to own her part.
I believe my finacee is a unicorn. Never came across another woman like her. The fact that she wants to be anal only is the cherry on the delicious cake she already is.
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I suspect being emotionally available is a more common trait among AO men, maybe AO women as well, because you know, finding someone different from the majority and suitable for you makes that particular person special. And also, anal is more intimate and forges a deeper bond between the couple. Maybe I’m wrong, but these are my thoughts.
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We wouldn’t be married for 43 years if neither of us were emotionally available. Some women’s attraction to the “bad boy” has always fascinated me. The video suggests some women may want to “fix” the bad boy and be willing to put up with the bullshit in hopes he will change. Anal improved our already excellent relationship and love for each other. She regrets she wasn’t more open to anal years ago but it’s been a great discovery later in life.
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I wouldn’t have gotten married if my husband wasn’t emotionally available/stable. I have had enough harmful and toxic relationships I didn’t have a choice in having, so I will always choose the healthy, fulfilling, peaceful ones.
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I’m not stable. However, once I manage to leave home, I’ll seek therapy immediately to fix myself or at least being able to keep up with living alone.
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You’re young and have the time to figure things out. Life is a remarkable and challenging journey. Be patient and you’ll find your mate and comfort zone.
If it helps, you’re far from being the only person leaving a troubled home while suffering. I sure was. If you react negatively to being treated badly, that’s a good sign. Even better, you wish to change what’s keeping you from happiness. Which means you’re actively working on breaking the cycle, on not becoming like people who treat others badly. Things will turn out fine for you. Hang in there.