Hi Everyone
I’ve logged in here every now and then since I posted in the introduction thread. I think I’ve read all your posts. You guys are awesome. I’m kind of revving up for this.
My BF asks for anal every now and then. We’ve been together about a year and we have done it that way about 3 or 4 times. A few times after he ate my pussy really well I rewarded him with A and once or twice I let him do it that way when I was on my period. He is always really grateful and always asking if he was gentle enough. I like it, it reminds me of teenage sex with my first bf when I was trying to keep my virginity (and not get pregnant).
Since I started reading this forum I’m just waiting for the next time. I realize I don’t know why I restrict it, we should do it more. I hope he asks soon, I’m sort of already holding back from just offering it to him!
If you enjoy anal why not engage in it more often? Many women in this group experience more intense orgasms during anal penetration. My wife’s anal orgasms, and my strong preference for anal, are why we’ve been anal only for 6+ years.
You’ve come to the right place for advice! I wish you well on your anal journey. Welcome!
Speaking for myself, there is nothing I like more than explicitly being offered anal. You can tell him, or you can show him! You will be rewarded handsomely and the more practice, the more you will both improve the pleasure you both get by working out how and what feels good for each of you.
Thanks for the compliment to our little community!
And I agree with the others, why wait for him to ask? If you want it, you can just ask for it. And think about how hot it’ll probably be for your boyfriend if you not only let him fuck your ass, but ask him to do it.
The asking part is the hottest. When a woman tells a man who likes anal that she wants him to fuck her ass, it causes an instant erection… better than ED meds.
We engage in a little dirty talk, but after I’ve pleasured her hole with intense plug play, she’ll say, “please fuck my ass”.
@olive I’m betting you will unlock his primal, sexual beast when ask him to fuck your ass. Give it a try and have fun!
Tell him you want it, he’s going to be very happy about it. There needs to be no shame attached to this. He’s not going to see you as less of a woman for enjoying this, instead, he’s going to be more excited and fallen in love with you.
Clarification: I wasn’t implying that there is anything wrong with offering it. I would totally not judge any girl who asks for whatever she wants. I guess I am just taking the easy option of waiting for him to ask. I’ll update you guys how it goes!
Either way he has no idea I’m reading or posting here. He has no idea you guys are inspiring me to increase the amount of “A” I put out!
Fuck. I’m getting turned on thinking about it!!!
During foreplay, whisper in his ear “I want you to fuck my ass”. Talk about an effective aphrodisiac for any man that enjoys anal sex. It’s a huge turn on! Let us know how it goes.
I’m with Colt, speaking directly leaves no question. If you prefer to be more discreet, maybe wear something which accentuates your butt, or drop some hints…or both…
