Hello hello. Chiming in as a decreasingly-youthful-but-still-fairly-youthful guy from the great white north.
While I’ve been into backdoor shenanigans since I was a teen (can’t pinpoint exactly when the wires got crossed), I first discovered the original forum a few years ago which set me on the path so to speak. Since then over the course of a few years, my girlfriend has gone from someone who would previously never have considered anal sex to someone who reliably prefers it when we have sex.
For her it’s purely a physical preference, whereas for myself there’s a big kink aspect… although it’s hard to pinpoint exactly what it is. I enjoy it on a physical level but I think the biggest aspect is that I love it when a girl loves it. I think it’s the taboo of it being the “wrong” way and yet what she wants anyway, norms be damned – she gets more pleasure from that then she ever could doing things the “right” way, or that’s the idea anyway. That, plus it feels good, and seeing a girl in front of me face-down-ass-up flat-out hijacks my brain.
Anyway… I’m looking to go from lurking to joining the forum in order to better access this suppository-repository of knowledge and get advice on some things, and maybe share some where I’m able as well.
Thanks!
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First off, do not let that girl go!
Secondly, this is a very good group of people that can provide excellent advice from years of experience. Finding this group, the old one initially, has helped my mental health more than anything. For years I thought I was the only one with these feelings and it is such a relief to find others. Honestly, reading these stories is very helpful.
Welcome, feel free to share.
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Now this is an introduction ! Thank you and welcome. I will now confirm you’re human, so you can use the complete forum.
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Welcome @intrepidsexplorer, good to have you!
I agree with backdoorlover, that’s a great intro post! Don’t let the moose bite and enjoy the the discussions!
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Welcome to the group… again. Like your girlfriend, my wife prefers anal because it’s the only way she can orgasm during penetration. She was hooked after her first anal orgasm. Like you, I’ve been obsessed with anal sex since I was a teen so it’s a kink for me, and it feels so much better than a vagina.
I prefer missionary at the corner of the bed with me standing. It allows the deepest penetration and I can watch her face when she cums. We use other positions but it’s our favorite.
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You are speaking my language. That is my favourite position with my legs right back over my shoulders! It means my spot gets a great seeing to!
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Anal stimulates ALL of the senses. Watching my wife cum during anal is a surreal experience. From a woman’s perspective, do you find this position allows for the deepest penetration? For me, deeper is always better.
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Absolutely. It lets the cock (or cocks) reach parts that no other position can, plus its great for eye contact. My boyfriend loves seeing my face as I climax.
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