On insta I see reels passing of women advising other women to do anal. I always go straight to the comments and those comments are always loaded with misconceptions about anal.
Something which reaccurs the most:
Anal makes you loose bowel control or damages your spincter.
Then there’s the pure faul comments of those who act like the receiver shits all over you when doing anal sex.
The conclusion is that in 2025, there still rests a huge taboo an anal sex. I myself - for example - always rethink a few times before deciding to tell about my anal only adventure. I know most will look down on my girlfriend if they’d know she loves anal sex till the point we abandoned vaginal.
So if society can ‘t even graps the notion of loving anal and anal being harmless, imagine the reaction to anal only.
I could care less what other people think. Narrow minded people don’t deserve, and will never experience, the pleasure anal sex offers. Their loss, not ours.
I acknowledge the taboo linked with AOL. We are lucky to have friends who we trust. They understand and enjoy our appreciation of anal sex. Not everyone is as open minded however. One of our group was in a discussion with workmates. The discussion got on to anal pleasure (don’t ask me why). She was going to speak a little about her love for anal however she waited to hear other opinions first. She was shocked at the lack of knowledge and derisory comments of some people, She kept quiet and felt it was not her place or the right place to educate them!
Yes narrow mindedness exists in all spheres. Some people are just against sex of any kind. Though I’d imagine you might experience even more prejudice in other areas like mixed marriage.
Some will love, some will hate. That’s ok. We must get used to the idea that we’ll be seen by many as degenerates. I don’t think we should care. Just strengthen yourself to deal with the pressure. There’s something deeply liberating and even romantic about being an outcast.
It’s friggin’ frustrating at the misconceptions towards sex and anal across all ages. I feel for folk who haven’t yet widened their scope of life, who haven’t expanded their consciousness. Part of me thinks they’re asleep and zombies lolz. It doesn’t have to be this way, if only, if only…
Maybe 20 years ago I played in a band and the guitarplayer suddenly told me that the singers’ wife had a serious conversation with his wife.
She confided in her that they did anal and she asked her gynacologist if anal was safe during her pregnancy. The guitarplayers’ wife and him did very juvenile about the subject. Telling others in a conspiring way.
Meanwhile there I was, also having anal now and then and I didn’t even spoke out, cause my then wife was very clear that our anal sex was no subject to tell anyone about.
I guess the lesson to learn here is take care when selecting who you confide in about your anal lifestyle, or anything. Not even because of the taboo perceptions but because some people are gossips and not very trustworthy and like to denigrate others for any reason they can find.