How often can you safely have anal sex? Can frequency increase as you get more experienced with it? I know that in the beginning, you need to go slow and take a couple days off every now and then, but does the asshole get used to being penetrated regularly after a while? A google search told me that having anal sex too often, it loosens your sphincter to the point where it won’t tighten back up, but I feel that can only happen if you’re careless or push yourself too hard. What do you guys think? Whoops, I just asked 50 questions. The one question that really matters is, how many times a week can someone do anal penetration safely?
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When I assfucked my girlfriend for the first time, I asked her how much she wanted to do it. She replied, “don’t know, let’s try again tomorrow” and from that point on I’ve assfucked her daily for 1,5 years. Then we slowed down to 4-5 times a week.
If anything did happen to her spincter, it got healthier. Her bowel movements improved, her random diarrea problems disappeared. In the 3 years that we’re anal only, she had the runners 2 times for half a day. We even had anal sex that day.
Don’t believe the nonsense you read on the internet. There are plenty of women who have anal sex for decades without any problems. Your spincter is a muscle. It can be damaged, but it can also be trained. To be honest, I believe that vagina’s are more likely to suffer under too much sex. Vagina’s getting loose after childbirth is very common and accepted. But do you see warnings about that ?
The taboo aspect on anal sex is still very alive and makes people write down their fears rather then experience.
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Pardon my sarcasm, but I’ll answer your question with my own… how often would you like to have anal sex?
The answer to the question is you can have anal as often as you wish.
HOWEVER, the person receiving anal sex must be able to do so without pain and injury. This requires communication and care on the part of the person giving anal sex. Same thing applies to anal play and toys.
If both partners know the limit, there is no reason you can’t enjoy anal sex as often as you like. The sphincter is one of the most amazing muscles in the human body and something to be respected, marveled, and enjoyed.
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The thing that changes with frequent anal sex is your ability to relax your inner sphincter at will. To get there, only practice helps, so yes, go slow, breathe, feel into your muscle … and do go as often as you feel like doing it. Stop when you experience pain, of course, and give yourself enough time to heal, in case anything does happen.
Warnings apply when numbing creams or similar products are used; but why would anyone want to feel less of anal penetration?
Oh, and as far as scary stories of damage from anal sex go: Have you ever read warning about how often one can have a bowel movement? It’s basically the same level of stretching.
Colt1911 asked the question I was going to ask. How often do you want to have it? I have enjoyed anal sex most days of the week and never had any problems. You will find the position or placement of the penis that works best for you.
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My anal basically is played everyday and I don’t find any issue with sphincter. It’s muscle, so practices should only makes it stronger. Stretching is not all about loose, it also needs to squeeze hard.
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Thanks, everyone. All of this is really good advice and you’ve given me a lot to think about!