Welcome Sin_Girl I look forward to hearing of your adventures.
I think the point is, that generally speaking, there are ways of telling if a woman is not a vaginal virgin. Probably the same for anal too but that normally doesn’t get tested/checked/monitored in the “straight and square” world. 
Maybe someone does keep anal and vaginal virginity until marriage. It’s good that there is no test for oral virginity. Many marriages would not have happened))
Haven’t any guys ever tried to have vaginal sex with you? And you don’t want to try it yourself, because the dick is so close, just a couple of centimeters from the “pussy”
Nobody tried, all men were much older and experienced, so they never did a mistake and they do not want to make problems neither for me nor for them. I also do not want to try before marriage, so I can avoid shame.
Hi @Sin_Girl and welcome! People may often skip reading the rules, but it’s always a good idea to do so.
I have a question. I know a number of “western” girls who started having anal to preserve their vaginal virginity. Quite a lot of them ended up preferring anal. Some never started having vaginal sex. Do you have any married friends who started with anal and have tried vaginal sex now? Do you know what they prefer?
Hello! Unfortunately people do not discuss openly such topics in my country… This is why I have come here 
Since you use the nicname sin_girl, does that imply you really see yourself as a sinner for doing anal and oral ?
For us atheists it’s kinda hard to wrap our head around the idea behind sin. Cause I have no one who can judge me, I never sin. I can do wrong, but that is obviously easily identified.
Yes, because sex before marriage is considered as sin 
There are grievous sins societies must judge, irrespective of religion.
Personally, I believe any sexual act between two or more consulting adult humans (because bestiality should be judged as unacceptable) should never be judged by a society.
Grievous “sins” such as murder, rape, robbery, arson, etc. should be judged as wrong by all civil societies irrespective of religious belief.
I just needed to clarify that there are plenty of “sins” that should be judged as wrong by atheists and everyone else.
@Colt1911 that’s wrongdoing and crime. I associate the word “sin” with religion.
I call murder a sin against humanity.
Atheists have a conscience too. I don’t believe in God, but I always try to do the right thing based on my personal convictions, not because I’m going to get a reward in heaven. Sometimes I suffer from this. My wife says, “You’re too correct and honest, it’s a hindrance to you in life.”
I can relate to that. My mum has raised me to be honest. For example, I never took the money if a cassier returned me too much money. Because my mum explained to me that a cassier would have to put that money back from her own pay.
I never needed god nor religion to know what was good.
@Sin_Girl sorry. We’re going seriously off topic
Political ideologies often become a substitute for religion. In many respects, fealty to a political ideology is as harmful as fealty to religion. In the U.S., we have a political ideology that is currently engaged in anti-semitism and destruction of private property driven by hateful ideology.
The point is humans are capable of the most abhorrent behavior driven by religion, political ideology, or just evil.
Would you marry a man that is not into anal? What if you get married and all you have is pussy sex? Won’t you miss your anal years? Are you allowed to at least talk about each other’s sexual preferences before getting married?
While sin certainly has religious connotations. It’s meaning is defined as a transgression against morality or divine law (which is now becoming archaic) - from Oxford and Macquarie dictionaries. I think the more modern meaning is a transgression against moral principles.
Morality, whether you like it or not, has received many of its notions and principles from religions, but that’s just because they were the original “vessels” of this knowledge. Just speaking on Christianity the decalogue encapsulated a large proportion of things not to do.
However, modern secularism has derived new principles of morality which are modifying a lot of older religious tenets. Even Pope Francis said “who am I to judge!” So there is an influence going the other way too. There is much more acceptance of sexual orientations that are not heterosexual. That’s just one example of moral development that is not religious.
I really like the word sinner 
and I love being sinful and committing sins.
Aw, that’s too bad! Well, I hope you’ll find all the discussion you want here 
“do things I don’t like” is a large part of my fetish.
so, what if the command is “don’t do things you don’t like”?
The head of a sub into consensual non consent will then spin uncontrollably, finally emiting smoke and vapors. Her eyes will seem distant for three to twenty three minutes, at which point her body will be rocked by a powerful orgasm.
It’s an ultra-secret domming technique 
I also started with only oral and anal because I want to save my vagina for some special one. but a few years later, I married to the man who took my oral and anal virginity, and we kept the non-vaginal relationship for all the years and don’t want to break it.