Below is an anal only and dom/sub contract I’ve spent time making. My gf and I signed it. Thought others in this group may enjoy reading it and/or using it!
Consensual Relationship Leadership Agreement
Effective Date: __________________
This agreement is entered into voluntarily by:
Leader: ________________________
Partner: _______________________
Both parties affirm that they are legal adults entering this agreement freely and without coercion. This document represents their mutually agreed relationship dynamic and serves as a statement of shared values, expectations, and commitments.
Article 1 – Purpose
The purpose of this agreement is to establish a structured, loving, respectful relationship built upon trust, communication, devotion, honesty, and mutual consent.
Article 2 – Consent & Safety
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Consent remains the foundation of every aspect of this relationship.
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Either party may withdraw consent at any time.
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The agreed safe word shall be:
PINEAPPLE
- Upon use of the safe word, any ongoing activity that has been designated by the parties as requiring a safe word shall immediately stop until both parties have discussed the situation.
Article 3 – Leadership
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The parties agree that the Leader will generally guide the relationship.
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The Leader agrees to exercise that role with patience, responsibility, fairness, and compassion.
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The Partner agrees to respect the Leader’s guidance in areas where both parties have chosen to follow this dynamic.
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The Leader agrees to always listen carefully to the Partner’s opinions before making important decisions.
Article 4 – Communication
Both parties agree to:
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Communicate honestly.
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Address disagreements respectfully.
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Never intentionally manipulate or deceive one another.
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Express appreciation often.
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Continue strengthening trust through open conversation.
Article 5 – Loyalty
Both parties agree to remain loyal to one another.
Neither party shall pursue, encourage, or entertain romantic relationships with another person unless mutually discussed and agreed upon.
Article 6 – Dress & Presentation
The parties agree that the Leader may express preferences regarding attire, appearance, and presentation.
The Partner agrees to make reasonable efforts to honor those preferences whenever practical.
Article 7 – Daily Rituals
The parties may establish mutually agreed daily or weekly rituals that reinforce their connection and relationship dynamic.
These rituals may be modified at any time by mutual agreement.
Article 8 – Acts of Service
As an expression of love, respect, and care, the Partner agrees that, whenever reasonably practical:
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The Leader’s plate of food shall be prepared and served before preparing or serving her own.
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This expectation applies both privately and publicly when circumstances reasonably allow.
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The Leader agrees to always express gratitude and appreciation for this act of service.
Article 9 – Accountability
When one party fails to uphold an agreed expectation, both parties agree to address the matter through calm discussion.
The Leader and Partner may mutually agree upon appropriate, non-harmful methods of reinforcing accountability that respect both parties’ boundaries and continuing consent.
The purpose of accountability is to strengthen the relationship rather than create resentment or fear.
Article 10 – Responsibilities of the Leader
The Leader agrees to:
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Lead with confidence.
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Protect the relationship.
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Show appreciation.
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Encourage growth.
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Listen with respect.
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Never abuse the trust placed in him.
Article 11 – Responsibilities of the Partner
The Partner agrees to:
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Communicate honestly.
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Show respect.
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Participate willingly in the agreed dynamic.
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Speak openly when concerns arise.
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Continue building trust through consistency and honesty.
Article 12 – Six-Month Review
Every six (6) months, the parties agree to conduct a formal review of this agreement.
Topics shall include:
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What’s working well.
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Areas for improvement.
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New goals.
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New boundaries.
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Desired changes.
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Any articles either party wishes to modify or remove.
No modification becomes effective unless both parties agree.
Article 13 – Duration
This agreement becomes effective upon signature.
The parties intend for this agreement to continue indefinitely while it continues to reflect their mutual desires and ongoing consent.
Either party may amend or terminate this agreement at any time through honest communication.
Affirmation
We enter into this agreement voluntarily and enthusiastically.
We recognize that trust, communication, respect, affection, accountability, and ongoing consent are the cornerstones of our relationship.
By signing below, we affirm our commitment to one another and to the principles contained within this agreement.
Leader Signature: _______________________
Date: __________________
Partner Signature: _______________________
Date: __________________
Witness (Optional): _______________________
Date: __________________
“Love grows strongest where trust, respect, and communication are chosen every day.”