Just wanted to continue a thread from the old forum with a happy update.
The old forum was instrumental in my relationship moving to Anal Only.
When we were young, my wife and I watched an old porn (on VHS cassette because we r that old!). It was called “Backdoor to Hollywood” and the first anal scene absolutely fascinated me! The woman was eager and enjoying it, the guy obviously was. It was like a light switch going on in my brain and libido. From that point on I was obsessed with wanting to try anal. We’d been having sexual for awhile and she was GGG before that was a tern we knew existed.
We were totally unsure how to proceed and made all the mistakes (saliva as lube, rushing, etc,). Not sure why, but she persisted and we learned better ways. Anal became a regular part of our repertoire. Eventually our standard was to to PIV as a startup and finish with anal as a form of birth control.
Over the years we became more and more anal focused, I think we would have been described as “anal frequently” if I had to label us.
My obsession led me to seek out anal only porn. And those searches led me to the original forum, originally as a lurker then a poster, I eagerly shared topics with my wife who occasionally has posted as MrsCanassman.
Eventually the discussions gave me the courage to raise the idea of moving from “anal frequently. To “anal only” with her.
It was a lot of discussions abt what that meant, abt my attraction to her as a person, our relationship and commitment. She agreed to try it.
We are now more than 10 years AO and both of us say this was the best decision of our 30+ year together.
We rarely have any conflicts or disagreements, the sex is more frequent and the best sex of our lives.
I hope that this is helpful or hopeful to others. As others have commented, anal only partners are often moved that way over time and based on relationships, rather than discovered.
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I remmeber reading your story on the other forum and thinking “I wish I would be able to say I led an anal only life for so many years. And here I am in my 3rd year, while being absolutely sure we will stay anal only as long as we live.
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I too remember your story/stories on the other forum. It is very inspiring and you are very fortunate. You give hope to us who love anal but are not anal only.
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