I was discussing with my boyfriend how our relationship has developed over time, particularly since adopting anal only. We both agreed that our feelings towards each other had grown a lot stronger as we regard anal as being more intimate. The feeling of him inside just feels closer. Some regard ass to mouth as submissive or even very hot. For us two it is an important way to share our love. Missionary or Cowgirl means I can feel his affection and have eye contact which is important to me. Don’t get me wrong, Doggie means I can feel my boyfriend grip me, pull my or pull himself deeper and has its place.
In time you’ll learn that every position, and every variation on every position, has it’s worth.
I did so many positions with my girlfriend, and can’t remember a single one that doesn’t feel fantastic.
As a man, I noticed that simply change the angle in which my cock slides in her asshole, changes the feeling. For me, for her, sometimes for both of us. I can’t recall having this experience when I fucked pussy. Changing the angle of enterance did nothing for me or her.
Then the position has it’s variations too. Take doggie. We have:
Her bent over while standing. This looks great because I have her heartshaped ass to look at. I can trust firmly and even jackhammer her asshole. She loves it. But for her this is the emotionally most detached position. It makes her feel used, in the best way, more then anything.
Then on her knees and hands. All four. Gives her more feeling of connection, I can’t trust as hard because I’m on my knees and can push her of my cock. For me it feels similar to the previous position.
On the edge of the sofa, face down, ass up. This is the absolute winner. Because I’m standing, I can drill her asshole and hold her hips so she stays in position. My cock slides in her asshole upwards, which gives us both a sensation we only acchieve in this position. She says it’s like my cock rubbs her bowel just in the right place and she feels tons of joy. By moving more on top of her, I can then assfuck her with downwards trusts, which again changes the feeling. This position is a guarantee for a deep grunt while I shoot my load in her asshole.
I consider all these doggie, yet they feel different, the intensity of my orgasm varies and also her moaning is absolutely breathtaking in ass up, face down doggie. I’s the combination of feeling used and feeling anal pleasure at it’s most.
I enjoy ass up and head down. I use 4 pillows under my ass. That gives my boyfriend the best angle to hit my spot every time. Some good ideas there. I will give them a go. Thank you.
When say ass up, face down, I mean while she’s on her knees.
Like a cat in heat
I like that Abby very much, the title of this thread; Anal Affection. When anal affection is mixed in with Love is magic and healing to all. That is how the world should see the anus with affection, instead of being something gross.
IMHO at least, that is how we should be treating the female form, with affection and adoration. If only folk knew, that every part of a female’s skin is literally orgasmic, the world would be in a better place.
I love the pleasure I get from my ass and I love when it is adored by those who are close to me.