I was discussing with my boyfriend how our relationship has developed over time, particularly since adopting anal only. We both agreed that our feelings towards each other had grown a lot stronger as we regard anal as being more intimate. The feeling of him inside just feels closer. Some regard ass to mouth as submissive or even very hot. For us two it is an important way to share our love. Missionary or Cowgirl means I can feel his affection and have eye contact which is important to me. Don’t get me wrong, Doggie means I can feel my boyfriend grip me, pull my or pull himself deeper and has its place.
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In time you’ll learn that every position, and every variation on every position, has it’s worth.
I did so many positions with my girlfriend, and can’t remember a single one that doesn’t feel fantastic.
As a man, I noticed that simply change the angle in which my cock slides in her asshole, changes the feeling. For me, for her, sometimes for both of us. I can’t recall having this experience when I fucked pussy. Changing the angle of enterance did nothing for me or her.
Then the position has it’s variations too. Take doggie. We have:
Her bent over while standing. This looks great because I have her heartshaped ass to look at. I can trust firmly and even jackhammer her asshole. She loves it. But for her this is the emotionally most detached position. It makes her feel used, in the best way, more then anything.
Then on her knees and hands. All four. Gives her more feeling of connection, I can’t trust as hard because I’m on my knees and can push her of my cock. For me it feels similar to the previous position.
On the edge of the sofa, face down, ass up. This is the absolute winner. Because I’m standing, I can drill her asshole and hold her hips so she stays in position. My cock slides in her asshole upwards, which gives us both a sensation we only acchieve in this position. She says it’s like my cock rubbs her bowel just in the right place and she feels tons of joy. By moving more on top of her, I can then assfuck her with downwards trusts, which again changes the feeling. This position is a guarantee for a deep grunt while I shoot my load in her asshole.
I consider all these doggie, yet they feel different, the intensity of my orgasm varies and also her moaning is absolutely breathtaking in ass up, face down doggie. I’s the combination of feeling used and feeling anal pleasure at it’s most.
I enjoy ass up and head down. I use 4 pillows under my ass. That gives my boyfriend the best angle to hit my spot every time. Some good ideas there. I will give them a go. Thank you.
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When say ass up, face down, I mean while she’s on her knees. 
Like a cat in heat
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I like that Abby very much, the title of this thread; Anal Affection. When anal affection is mixed in with Love is magic and healing to all. That is how the world should see the anus with affection, instead of being something gross.
IMHO at least, that is how we should be treating the female form, with affection and adoration. If only folk knew, that every part of a female’s skin is literally orgasmic, the world would be in a better place.
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I love the pleasure I get from my ass and I love when it is adored by those who are close to me.
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I want to pick up this thread again.
We have been through a weird period of apathic behavior towards eachother, which seemed to get worse in time. We really lost connection and affection slowly dripped out of our marriage.
A few difficult talks, and allnighters while doing so, led to an understanding that something had to be done. Mind you at that point we hadn’t had sex for over a week. Which is ages in our relationship.
The next night, when I got upstairs after closing the business, she was naked. Inwas naked after my shower and al sudden she just started to suck my cock. After maybe 5 mins I asked if I could put it in her ass, and we fucked so good. Reconnecting with her asshole in a litteral way, made us feel so loved up again. The panting got in sinc and my orgasm was a release like I rarely experience.
Anal affection is real, folks 
Absolutely agree! There are times when my wife and I are dealing with work or other stressors and lost sight of our connection. When we realize it and one or both initiates sex we feel reconnected.
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It’s an unfortunate reality that at times the exigencies of life can numb the love in a relationship. It takes some mindfulness to naviagte through these rougher waters and get back to the docking station! My wife started a new job and she has been spending a lot of time on it and so I have to find ways to help her and keep reminding her I love her. Fortunately, extra hours can be done at home rather than in the office. That would be even more difficult. Some good fucking always breaks through no matter what and pushes all that stuff out of mind for those moments.
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I completely understand what the demands and stresses of life / work / family can do to the libido. To say nothing of just plain exhaustion from over-work or attending to the healthcare needs of family members, etc.
My experience may be stereotypical in that the guy (me) finds sexual activity helps to relieve stress and decrease tiredness, etc. But the ladies (all the sexual partners in my life) seem to have felt the almost the opposite. [I have only ever known one woman (a friend, not a sexual partner) who “acted like a typical man” in this regard. When she had a hard day at the office, she came home and rode her husband hard.]
I have had to learn (which took me a long time, but men can be slow learners) that I have to take a lot of responsibility for creating less-stressful times / opportunities, etc., so that my lady may feel more sexual interest. For me that is always harder than it should be. Especially because “just take some time off” is not a practical possibility – there are too many balls (no not that kind) in the air, especially these days with certain people seemingly intent on destroying parts of the U.S. economy; “time off” just makes things worse for both me and my lady.
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I was studying hard for exams this year. It was very stressful but enjoying anal sex really helped me to relax. There is nothing like an anal orgasm to de-stress! At one point my boyfriend my boyfriend and I were having sex 5 days-a-week and the other 2 with our friends!
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